I can question Rock's love because he never fucking wanted to be a wrestler. If he did, he would NOT have tried so hard to make it in the NFL, he wouldn't have left. I went to a pro wrestling school and tried until I almost died, I spent a month in the hospital. I LOVE pro wrestling. I don't want to be a movie star, I wanted to be a pro wrestler.
Listen. You sound like a man who has serious passion, and that is to be commended. I have serious passion as well. When I was a kid, in my heart were two different passions. I wanted to be an architect though i sucked at math so It turned into graphic design, and i loved music. I sought out music for 18 years and was pretty successful at it. Now, that I have a family, I am doing graphic design and through the grace of God, have become pretty successful at that. Why can't a man have more than one thing that they are passionate about? By your logic a man can only have true love at one thing, and only like the others and I think while that is fact for covenant relationships, its not that cut and dry for a mans occupation.
You love wrestling. If you could do it you would do that professionally. Based on your post, you have tried to do it and it didn't happen for you. So that means you had to go to plan B. You're in school right now getting your degree (me too) and working towards the goal of have not just a job, but a career. Due to your passionate nature (based on your post) i'm going to assume that this career you're in school for has something...anything to do with wrestling. Because if its not...
if its not, I have to question your love for the business.
Or is that wrong?
Yes. That's wrong. You know why? Because you tried and at least you went in full force and went to the hospital trying to make it happen. Now, your focus is on something else (maybe). That does not change the FACT that you love this business. That does not change the FACT that its in your blood.
and that more than anything else should open your understanding to the FACT that a man who has succeeded in doing all that they can in one area of their life whether they have tried and won or tried and failed, will and is completely within his rights to move on. The love can still be there, the passion can be just as strong, but when its time to move on, its time.
The Rock went from being a nobody in this business to one of the biggest icons in wrestling HISTORY. Not just a great wrestler, but a wrestling ICON. Something few wrestlers have ever achieved. He's won every major championship, and done ALL that there was to do in wrestling. What is left?
What more can he do? Would you rather him get old and decrepit in the ring? Wrestle till he can do nothing else? Tarnish his legacy by staying past his prime? He's 40 this year. What is a wrestlers shelf life? What SHOULD it be? You tell me. You either get out (Rock) or you're forced out (Edge...and COUNTLESS others). Or...you stay and wrestle until the legacy that makes you immortal is tarnished by the bad legacy you continue to create as a result of not going out on Top. Shawn went out on top. Thats the way you should end it. Rock went out on Top. And theres nothing, wrong with that.
You compare having love for the business to having love for your wife.
Bro, let me tell you something. I know every man says they love their wife, but i LOOOOOOVE my wife. I love my career path. I LOOOOOVE my career path. But if I had to choose between the two, I'd without question choose my wife. Does that mean I don't love my career? No. No it doesnt. It means that there is a level of love that I have for one thing over the other. It means that comparison is moot. It means that is comparing apples and oranges.
It means it should not be in the same category.
As much as I respect your love for your wife, and as much as I get the analogy your attempting to make, it is two different levels of love. Would you choose wrestling over your wife? If you say no, then is your love of wrestling to be questioned? No. cause its different.
The Rock has a passion for entertainment. And I'd garner to say that he LOVES wrestling and the wrestling business because its entertainment. I'd also say he LOVES acting because its ALSO entertainment.
And there's nothing wrong with that.
If you can't see that, then there's nothing I can do to explain it further.
Oh and...
Maybe he wont win an Oscar, but can you guarantee that? No. I didn't think Monique was gonna ever win an Oscar when I watched her on the show "The Parkers" but what she go and do? Win an Oscar.
All it takes is the right role. They don't ask you to come back if you suck. They ask you to come back if you're hot and your right for the role. 18 movies later, i'd say the Rock is hot and right for the roles, supportive or not. (by the way, you DO know you can win an oscar for a supporting role right?)
I think people who relate to Rock don't actually love pro wrestling either. I can't fathom quitting wrestling to be a movie star. It doesn't make sense to me. I LOVE pro wrestling. Movies are okay. The goal isn't to become famous, it's to be remembered as the best pro wrestler (to me).
And I think this statement is total BS. Seriously man, this is the biggest generalization i've ever read. How can you say that? I, (again) have been watching wrestling since I was 8 years old. I'm 36 this year and I'm just as big a fan of it now as I was then! If you don't think the goal in professional wrestling (TODAY) is to become famous then you're fooling yourself. Professional wrestlers who get on the indy circuit are grooming themselves to be in a major wrestling promotion. That promotion today, being the WWE, which is ALL about fame and mainstream exposure. If you think for one moment that every wrestler in any indy spot wouldnt break their necks trying to get into the WWE to be famous you're kidding yourself. Sorry to say it...but FAME is the ultimate goal in the wrestling business today.