This basically sums up why I find those acting like Dagger is telling the women to get in the kitchen and tend to the young'uns to be blowing this WAY out or proportion:
There's a difference between saying this is how I see things and the second thing you said. Yeah it's bad, but it comes off as much more misguided than demeaning or mean spirited.
So your take here is that what Dagger said is not acceptable, but because it was not said with intentional malice it is not worth drawing attention to?
I'm not trying to be condescending, I'm genuinely asking.
I never said that. Just because you want to interpret it that way doesn't make it true. You can find someone attractive without "wanting to bang them".
If Tasty was to concede this point to you, it would be a moral victory at best. You still assigned a group of women numbers based at least in part on how attractive you found them, and that scale heavily favored white women over women of color. Whether or not you want to unsheathe your +1 dagger of penetration for them, the act of ranking them on hotness and asserting that this ranking somehow affects their ability to perform their job is sexist.
Pot meet kettle. I already said race had nothing to do with it. You on the other hand, have obvious problems with white women and the one with the chip on his shoulder is YOU. And Tastycles too.
There's a few problems with this argument. First of all, it's a straw man argument. I've never stated I have any issues with the high rankings for white women. If you think a white woman's look is excellent, they deserve an excellent ranking. My problem is that you gave every single female that wasn't white a low rank. Asuka's look is one of the reasons she's one of the hottest names in NXT right now, and you gave it a 4/10. Sasha Banks is probably the most recognizable women on the roster with her signature jewelry and pink hair, and you gave her a 5.5. Nia Jax does not just have one of the best looks for a female wrestler, but of all wrestlers in general... and you gave her a 0.5
The second big issue is that you assume that because I support women of color, I am against white women. This further illustrates how racist you are, assuming that because I am pro-women of color, it must make me anti-white women. This is not a George W, "with us or against us," type of deal. This is an all women should be treated equally, deal.
And I don't think it's sexist to not find dark skinned women or non-white women attractive. You can't really help what you find attractive or not, and I don't think you can label a problem that is hardwired to your biology or psychology prejudice. It is, however, prejudiced to consistently rank women of color lower than white women based on appearance.
To be fair I think the truth of the matter is more nuanced. I don't believe Dagger realised his post could be construed as racist/sexist at all, and if he thought he was, he would re-evaluate his stance.
I agree with what JGlass is saying in general, that the concept is objectifying and just an all around Bad Idea, but I don't believe Dagger set out with that express intention and I don't think it's fair to attempt to paint him as some sort of "evil" or continue to villlify him now that the flaws in his actions have been pointed out.
So basically the question in your mind comes down to his unintentional objectification sexist?
The answer is yes. It doesn't matter if the person doing it doesn't know any better. In fact, this is the type of sexism we should be targeting, because it can be cured with education.
Both sides have made their points and given your different views and how you perceive each others' outlooks, you aren't going to reach any kind of compromise or resolution so it's probably better to move on.
But then what's the point of the internet?
Welp. This thread went pretty much exactly as I thought it would, right down to the unintentional irony and incredible lack of self-awareness.
And it's all your fault.
No, I'm outnonsensing your nonsense. If you want to be a social justice warrior then have at it. If you want to troll Dagger have at it. Just do a better job at both.
I thought I was doing a pretty alright job. Do you have any specific critiques.
His post is beyond creepy in its length and effort. Is it sexist? Somewhat, but I've done worse. His Women's MITB is way more sexist. Is it degrading? Meh. Is it racist? Not really. I was going to make a joke that his original username was ****** Dies before changing it to Dagger Dias. That is far more offensive and racist even if my context did matter.
I think SNS broke it down best...
He is claiming people are worse at their profession for their color. He is also saying a woman's value in the industry is strongly based on how much he wants to screw her. How is this even questionable?
But mostly I'm just being ridiculous because most of the time that is my thing.
I like you more when you point your ridiculousness in other directions.