Relationship Advice
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HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
Forget it.
Downward Spiral
I'm Not From Your Country
Shh, Jonny...they don't like to be interrupted during private time!
TheOneBigWill
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I personally find the irony in the thread title. But that could just be me, I am male and therefore entitled to be wrong & stupid, after all.Downward Spiral
I'm Not From Your Country
Could we move Will's/HBK's posts into the 'Repercussions of a 25 Year Old's Mistake' thread?
Eh, me and my friends pull this kind of crap all the time. I remember one time I was having a deep discussion with a girl in a club and a friend of mine just came and stood next to me. I do it to them too, it's funny to just go and stand there and make an awkward situation even more awkward.
Downward Spiral
I'm Not From Your Country
Hmm, the humiliation in front of the female sounds like it could work too...
"Shit man, she looks like the last one you met here!...Fuck, lucky you got checked the next day, or things could be worse than they already are!"
Well, after reading all of that, I think I know what I gotta do. And Will, I'm 20. Thats not much farther off than you are. I will never cheat on a girl for sex, and sex isn't all I want, but that shouldn't mean I don't want it at all. A few years ago, I was with a girl I really liked who had sex with me, and those were the happiest two years of my life. I want BOTH sex and happiness. But I think I'm going to break it off. I'm her first Bf, so it's going to be hard, but I have to do it.
TheOneBigWill
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Excluding giving up my daughter, I wish I could go back to being 20. That was the unofficial best year of my life. Infact, if I could exactly freeze time.. it'd be that April, the Thursday-Monday. (weekend of Backlash, to be exact) Yeah, I definately hold onto that memory tightly.
Anyways, there's a 5-6, possibly even 7 year difference (especially since your age still says 19) and a LOT can happen within that time.
Whatever you do, just be honest with her. Especially because you're her first boyfriend. Don't make up a story. Just explain straight forward you don't think things are going the right way and you just don't feel like the relationship is going to evolve into anything that can make you both completely happy.
Don't leave her wondering what she did wrong, If you do, she'll A.) Never forgive you in the end.. and B.) Always hold that in her head and build it into a complex.
Finally.. you're never going to find completely happiness in JUST sex, just so you know. You'll find satisfaction within it, but it'll be an empty type. It'll only be happy & satisfying when you have it, right before & right after. In the days you don't have it, you'll be like you are..
After you break up with her, drop all contact with her. You should never remain in contact with someone you have had a romantic relationship with.
HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
Why? Lol. I try to stay in conntact with every guy I've been with.
Umm, I disagree. I still talk to most of my ex girlfriends, and it's all fine. And me and this girl have been friends for years, and now that we're going out, it just still seems like we're still friends.
agreed, women are selfish and the second they find out you still talk to an ex the shit is on. It's okay if they do it, but if you do it your obviously still sleeping with her.
Haha. I still talk to most of my ex's, the only ones I don't talk to are, well, the ones I had sex with. I currently don't talk to ANY of the girls I've ever had sex with, but me and this girl havn't had sex, so I think I'm gonna break it off before it's to late.
HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
Wait, did I just get referred to as HBK?
NYSandman did that to me yesterday.
I love you both very much
HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
Woah as one of the few females on this board, I have to stick up for the fact this is not true. I dont mind boyfriends still talking to their exes as long as they allow me to talk to mine.
TheOneBigWill
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Interesting. Mind explaining more? Such as.. why?
I think I have a pretty good opinion on why, but I just wanna hear what you think on the matter.
TheOneBigWill
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You mean you have to keep the "cover-up" safe?
Like Shocky said, girls get jealous, and then stupid drama occurs. I've been having to put up with a girl for months because I refuse to give back something she gave me as a gift. And the only reason it matters to her is because she's crazy and I have a girlfriend.
Drop her, and then leave her. It's for the best.
TheOneBigWill
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WTF?! I've never asked for anything I gave as a gift back. I'm just thankful I didn't give my first fiancee' her engagement ring before she left me.
It was a Christmas present she didn't end up getting.Ironically, its still wrapped in a box somewhere. Not sure where either. LOL
Anyways, I talk to both the girls who were from my past that mean the world to me. Both are great friends now. They both love the Wife too, which I have to be careful since one is now kinda playing for the other side.
Oh yeah.WTF?! I've never asked for anything I gave as a gift back. I'm just thankful I didn't give my first fiancee' her engagement ring before she left me.
And you want to know what the birthday gift was? The Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle moves. $20. Seriously.
This girl is completely nuts.
TheOneBigWill
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Okay...A.) Who the f*ck gives that as a Birthday gift? Short of it being almost what 10-15 years ago?
B.) Who the f*ck would WANT that gift back, now?!
C.) What I think you should do, is buy her a turtle, (snapper would be nice) then give it to her. LOL
The closest I've come to anything of that nature is my first girlfriend thinking suddenly that MY Leather coat was somehow her's because she wore it on all our dates.
She didn't officially say she wanted it, she just had it in her mind that years after we broke up, she felt she should.. have it. loljustinsayne
Cody Rhodes is an excellant
WTF?! I've never asked for anything I gave as a gift back. I'm just thankful I didn't give my first fiancee' her engagement ring before she left me.
Ironically, its still wrapped in a box somewhere. Not sure where either. LOL
Anyways, I talk to both the girls who were from my past that mean the world to me. Both are great friends now. They both love the Wife too, which I have to be careful since one is now kinda playing for the other side.
You turned a girl lesbian
....I'm sorry that's just too damn funny *wipes tears from eyes*
