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THIS. This right here is why no one likes you. And why you're either a virgin or a date rapist.
How do you get a girl to like you?
- Thread starter "Cool Guy" Jensen
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THIS. This right here is why no one likes you. And why you're either a virgin or a date rapist.
"Cool Guy" Jensen
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Hmmmmmm... one of my best friends is a girl. I started seeing one of her best friends and then I got introduced to another girl, also through my friend. I ended up liking her way more and moved on to her. She's like the best girl ever. Well, not really, but you know. So the trick is... have a good friend who is a girl. Kinda. Probably not good advice, but it worked for me.
Believe me or not, when I was young... I had plenty of friends that were girls. It was a lot easier to talk to them because I didn't have much of a reputation and we were equal, just wanting to be friends. We didn't worry about relationships. Then, middle school came along. I knew zero people in my class and had to start from scratch. Then during the later years of middle school, I started getting more comfortable with my friends from there, but then graduation hit. None of my friends went to the same high school as me, so once again, I had to start from scratch. So, obviously... I'm not too good at making new friends, whether it's boys or girls. And apparently, I don't leave a lasting impression on the old friends I had.
you talking to me, because if you are, ahhh shut up damn you
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lol...
seriously...you'll be fine. life's not all that complicated. unless you were in X's situation, then you have no worries. If you are in a situation similar to X's...seek help. Otherwise buy some porn.
"Cool Guy" Jensen
Undertaker for Champ!
Sorry, but I actually respect all females and I would never do that to one for any reason at all. I'm not that desperate... as a matter of fact, I'm not desperate at all.
That's really unfortunate that you went to a different school then your friends. My high school is right across the street from elementary so I knew everyone moving over so I had the same friends. I was then lucky enough to meet the nicest girl, who became my best friend. Thing have went well from there as I've found my way into a large group of friends, and all my "love" interests have come from that. What I'm saying is... try and find your way into a group, not just focusing on one girl who you don't know at all. You will get to know them better anyway. It worked for me anyway.
Dude, I swear one of these days your posting is going to annoy me so freaking bad I will find your IP address, track it to your home address, hunt you down, then bitchslap you and laugh while you run crying your mommy.
yeah, that's why you fail so hard, bro!
and still!!! your twitter is SHIT! I will not tire of saying that
"You got to get her running before you start running" Just have fun, high school is a big step essentially but is overrated. Except for a select few people your not going to find your "soul mate" or anything like that in high school. There are more things to worry about once you get into the real world. Talking to girls will just come natural once your in your own skin. If a relationship doesn't work out it's not the end of the world, you have your whole life ahead of you.
Honestly, I dont know how I get girls to like me, I'm just me. I'm also kind of shy, dont have high self-esteem mostly because I dont think I'm that good looking & kind of chubby, but I'm just nice to girls & when I feel comfortable w/them, I start flirting with them & go from there.
You know, there's only way I can fill out this answer, but it's already been said: High School girls are morons.
Come to college, and you'll soon find that the lines you used before won't get ignored because the girl is an absolute bitch, and can't get over herself. Simply enough, man and woman need time to matre before they can really understand the pure beauty of one another. People say college is one huge orgy, but I simply say it's an awakening of the beauty that each sex presents.
You? You have hit that period. Now wait for college, and you'll be just fine
Come to college, and you'll soon find that the lines you used before won't get ignored because the girl is an absolute bitch, and can't get over herself. Simply enough, man and woman need time to matre before they can really understand the pure beauty of one another. People say college is one huge orgy, but I simply say it's an awakening of the beauty that each sex presents.
You? You have hit that period. Now wait for college, and you'll be just fine
My advice: Don't give a shit. Pay no attention to this or any other woman you're intested in. Bad advice? Then do you care to explain why women I don't give a shit about can't leave me alone? I mean this method is pretty much bulletproof.
Additionally, if forced to put yourself in a social situation you should put forth an air of confidence and personality. I faked it for long enough in high school that I'm now half convinced I actually have it both of these things. Try it on and see how it works for you.
Sly's money thing is good advice as well, but I haven't been mauled by an hot coeds looking to be sexually enlightened by a man in khaki shorts. So be prepared to be let down on that part of his post.
Just remember: Don't be yourself. Yourself is not good enough. Just ask the popular kids.
Additionally, if forced to put yourself in a social situation you should put forth an air of confidence and personality. I faked it for long enough in high school that I'm now half convinced I actually have it both of these things. Try it on and see how it works for you.
Sly's money thing is good advice as well, but I haven't been mauled by an hot coeds looking to be sexually enlightened by a man in khaki shorts. So be prepared to be let down on that part of his post.
Just remember: Don't be yourself. Yourself is not good enough. Just ask the popular kids.
Ok cool guy, I know exactly how you are feeling. I don't know about everyone else, but I went through the exact same thing you are currently going through. High School is a little awkward the first year if you don't really know or talk to too many people. For my freshman year, I hung out with one group of kids, but after freshman year I got tired of their crap. (This does go somewhere) But then my sophomore through senior years, I hung out with friends that I had known for a few years, and I got really comfortable and learned what kind of person I am, a big goofball.
When it comes to girls, especially in high school, they are some of the shallowest people in the world. But, if one catches your attention, maybe a girl in your class, or a girl you see or hear in the hallway, just try talking to her. Like NorCal said, be yourself, no matter what. Find out who you are, because when you know who you are yourself, you will be more comfortable around other people. Maybe hang out with some other guys in your school, and they could potentially help you meet some girls. I'll leave you with this. Just be yourself, put yourself out there, and as a coworker told me "Just ask them to hang out or something. The worst they can do is say no". Yes, a no in high school does suck, and it hurts, but there are better girls out there for you. I have faith in you man.
wtf...apparently, chemicals are some people's best friend in the internet forums.