No it isn't. I really don't see how I could better explain it, if your not getting by now there is simply too many years of believing the crap your spouting to find out it's all bull, even laid with the evidence you wouldn't be swayed from your prehistoric ideas.
There is no "evidence", jerk off. It's simply you spouting grade school logic hoping that it covers up your continued use of hate speech.
I could be wrong but I don't think that's hmmmm quite how the process goes. You may call it stupid but then your still under the perception that the word gay means happy and nothing else, it never can mean anything else. The word has one meaning and that meaning can't change. Philistine.
It's not about having more than one meaning, and it never has been. It's that using that language only encourages others to do so, whether or not they mean the same thing you do. Why cling on to phrases like "gay" and "***" if you know it's problematic? The answer is that instead learning how to change yourself, you'll only make excuses.
Yes exactly my point. It'll get the shit beaten out of you. But you only DESERVE to have the shit beaten out of you if you used that word intending to cause some distress.
No, it doesn't work that way. You walking around North Philly or Oakland or wherever spouting off "******" like it's nothing will get you your ass beat because it shows your ignorance to their sensitivities. It wouldn't matter why you said it, it's simply the fact that you don't care.
I mean why do black people not beat the shit out of each other when they say it, is it no longer a hateful word when your in certain company?? Because if it isn't then I'm right. And if it is then every time a black person calls themselves or another person THAT WORD they are actually insulting them and therefore DESERVE to get just as much hate for it. Pick. Those are the only two options.
Now we get to ultimatums. Ha. Like there isn't conflict in the Black Community about the use of that word. You like to talk like you know what you are on about, but you don't.
I'm afraid the mark was there and you missed by a few miles. I haven't once used those words, I don't use them in real life because there has never been the circumstance where it has been acceptable for me to. But what if I had a black friend and he told me he didn't mind me saying that to him. Am I still at fault if my friend has no problem with it just because it is historically a repelling word. Give you a clue, answer yes and your an idiot.
What you say with your friends in private is your own business. Your token black friend does not speak for an entire community, and to think that his permission would allow you to speak as you wish would be foolish.
Well firstly a lot can be read from the tone, like I can tell from the way you write that your an impulsive, non-pensive know-it-all who actually knows very little.
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If I say I hate ****, then it's fair to say what I mean by that, I went to the shop to buy some **** it's clear I'm using the word in a different way. I mean if you can't tell apart the two thats just you, I'm sure most people can understand the gravitas of a given situation. All I can really say is that if someone is stupid enough not to note how a certain word is being used in a sentence, there really isn't much that can be done for them.
HHHeartbreakKid called Stormtrooper a "******". Regardless of whether he meant idiot or homosexual, it's still an inappropriate use of the term because the message is still "****** = negative" and the generally accepted use of the term is as a homophobic slur.
I haven't created a reality, I live within it whilst you knock on the glass window remiss of all the things you don't understand. I honestly can't imagine how someone claiming to be your age but with your intellect hasn't jammed a pencil into their brain or been run over walking backwards into the road or something similarly stupid to prematurely end their life.
It's because, unlike you, I keep aware of my surroundings, and of the people around me. I see how much hate speech hurts people, and I feel for them. I sympathize with them that they must suffer ignorant turds like you who will bend over backwards spinning excuses to ensure that they don't have to change one bit about themselves.
And by the way, may I be the first person to accuse you of being hateful towards gay people and black people. For because you used the words you so highly covet as offensive, you must be guilty of your own crime you hypocritical eejit.
Go for it, I'm not the one who accused the black community of being over-sensitive to the use of the term "******".
Also, scoping out your Facebook page, I don't see one non-white on there. Interesting.
I'll not be responding to your shallow ramblings after this, I'd rather not tongue-wag with someone that has NO idea of what it is they're trying to prove.
And what are you trying to prove? That you are allowed to use hate speech as long as you pretend it means something else? If you write "idiot" on a man's garage with spray paint, it's vandalism. If you write "******", it's a hate crime.
Yes, that is exactly what I'm saying. Using the term as another meaning other than slandering homosexuals is perfectly acceptable where I come from.
You must come from Backwards-ville, USA, where ignorance is supreme and Wal-Mart is god.
I agree that it may be a poor choice of words, but it was sent as a PRIVATE message for Sully, a kid that is growing up in my neck of the woods. I have never, in the cage or otherwise, used that term in a public context as I'm sure it would offend some people. I'm not saying it's right, but for you to claim you know what I meant, is wrong as well.
I never claimed to know what you meant by it. I merely called you out for using it in the first place.
Is it ignorant? Sure, I'll admit it, but that doesn't mean it's not an accepted usage of the word. You are from California, which is a vastly different setting than Pittsburgh. I'm not sure, but I'd guess there are a lot more homosexuals living in your area than there is in mine. I'd also guess that that means the term doesn't roll of the tongue as easily for folks out there as it does for us here.
See what I mean about excuses? "Oh, surely gays only exist out in California. Out here we just use it so often that we've forgotten that we do". Pitiful. You don't think folk out here throw out "gay" and "***" frequently? That's no excuse. You aren't in some pocket universe, it's just be bred into you that it's ok to do so. It's like a group of white boys saying "****** this, ****** that" because they've checked over their shoulder that there aren't any black people around. Pretty much everything about this statement is wrong.
So stop pretending that what I said was anything more than what I meant it to be.
Which was an insult. Which only serves to continue to influence others into using the term that way. Which would be the entire point I am making, but you two would rather try to make excuses instead of facing up to something about yourselves that you should probably change.
You sit up on your high horse
I've actually never sat on a horse before.
and act like you've never said anything that can be misconstrued as hateful a certain group of people.
Like many of my generation, I grew up using "gay" and "***" in everyday life. I had to work to eliminate those words from my vocabulary because I realized they were just as offensive as "kyke" and "******". I don't see what the big deal is in trying to be less of an asshole in life.
I'm sure if I had the time, I could prove you have done exactly that. And, whether or not you've used it jokeingly or not, would negate your entire arguement against my use of the word. Have you never used the word "spic"? Have any of your friends ever used the word around you in a playful manner that didn't upset you in the least? If so, your entire arguement against me is flawed.
And after all the excuses, we down to the good ol' "you've probably done it before so you can't say anything about it" argument. Typical.
Also, don't paint pictures that aren't true. You asked me to "kindly stop PM'ing you", as if I sent you more than 1. When actually, I sent one PM, you chose not to respond and I left it at that. Don't insinuate that I'm sucking your dick through PM to impress anyone here, when clearly I haven't. I'll say publicly exactly what I said priavately and that is, that I think you are a good poster. I've never had any problems with you, and I still don't. However, you choose to base your opinions of me on conversations and little arguements I've had with others on here, when you don't know yourself exactly what the history is. I don't give a rat's ass if you like me or not, I'd prefer to get along w/people here, but if you don't want it that way, fine. If you want to attack me, be certain that I will fight right back. So, either accept my apologies for offending you, or anyone else with a term I used in private, or keep coming after me, and when I feel like fighting back, I'll do so. If I have a mind to just let you be an asshole w/out saying shit back to you, I'll do that as well, because at the end of the day, you're a stranger behind a computer screen and it doesn't affect me one bit whether or not you think I'm sincere in what I say.
Why not tell me how you really feel about it?
