Have You Ever Used Someone For Sex?

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I used to tell myself that I would never use a woman for sex, but, I've recently done just that. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem like she was using me, and I may or may not have said some things that would have persuaded her to go to bed with me, so, something tells me I'll be getting called out on that shit pretty soon. But, I'll honor my word.

Anyway, have you ever used someone for sex?
 
Yeah, I have, and it's not something I'm proud of. I'm not gonna sit here tell you it's not wrong, because it is. You were wrong. And so was I. And so are a whole lot of people that have done the same thing. Doesn't make it any better, but at least we're not alone in our epic wrongness.
 
I have a situation. At this point I'd like to just get something from her and be done with it. If a relationship was ever possible, we've just about hit the point where I'm just too damn tired.
 
I've thought about it, and most likely will end up doing it in the nearby future, unfortunately. I am sorry to admit, but there's this girl who I'm in serious friend zone with, and I don't like her, but she's hot as fuck.TBH, we'll probably end up having a one night stand that will stay just between us two, and I'm sure she feels the same way. So really, I wouldn't be using her, as both of us just want to fuck each other, and don't want a real relationship. I'd be fucking happy to have a friend fucking relationship with her and we cuddle most of the time, so if we both want to fuck, then we can. No point in having a relationship, if we don't want one.
 
Once. But, she was literally throwing herself at me. She sat on my lap, kissed me, and said "Let's go fuck in the pool"

So...We did.
 
Once. But, she was literally throwing herself at me. She sat on my lap, kissed me, and said "Let's go fuck in the pool"

So...We did.

I don't think that counts. I'd only consider it "using" if the other person wasn't in it for the same reason.
 
I have not. Won't say I never thought of it, but I never followed through, because the broad was pretty drunk.
 
Welll that all depends on how you look at it. I hooked up with a woman one night, and we hooked up a number of times after that. I thought we were just hooking up because we both needed sex. Apparently she didn't think of it that way and got pissed when I didn't call her for a few days. Anyway it's kind of funny now because she's got a boyfriend, and obviously I got my girlfriend, and sometimes when we're out at a bar or some sort of event her and her boyfriend will be around and she gives me this evil look or tries to "accidently" run into me.

So I don't know if you consider that using someone for sex when really I thought that's all there was to it.
 
I don't think that counts. I'd only consider it "using" if the other person wasn't in it for the same reason.

Well, then...No...

I may be unusually horny, but I respect a women enough to understand "No means no", and then go jack off to an image of her in my head.
 
Well, I use real women for sexytime... the only thing inflatable or plastic should be the two circular things on the chest where the nipples are.

I do not like speaking in PG talk.
 
It has been done in past, but the woman or women I was with were in it for the exact same reasons. I think I'm a little too soft at heart to take advantage of a woman who has expressed feelings for me. I would just feel like such a shit if I exploited that for sexual gratification.
 
Well, then...No...

I may be unusually horny, but I respect a women enough to understand "No means no", and then go jack off to an image of her in my head.

Woah, woah, WOAH. This is not coercive sex in the least. When you use someone for sex, you are more than likely deceiving them (e.g., making them think that you're going to give them a commitment), but, no, you are not forcing them into doing something against their own will.
 
Woah, woah, WOAH. This is not coercive sex in the least. When you use someone for sex, you are more than likely deceiving them (e.g., making them think that you're going to give them a commitment), but, no, you are not forcing them into doing something against their own will.

I was gonna make the same point but I figured some sanctimonious douchebag would come in and be all "BUT THAT'S STILL FORCING THEM AGAINST THEIR WILL OMG!!11!!" and I didn't want to deal with that bullshit so I just let it go.
 
No. I would never do that. I'm a great guy that women can trust and whose PM box always has room for one more.
 
Yes, 3 months ago, and I'm not proud of it. Still... it was fucking amazing at the time. :D
 
Sure, I used her for sex and she was used me to get back at her ex-boyfriend, and her current boyfriend, boy she was a messed up lady, and I got two sets of beatings, totally worth it though.
 

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