She's quite heavy, odd face, her hair is blue, she's extremely boring and most of our conversations revolve around her shopping, she's annoying, etc. I think I just have to tell her I don't like her that way, but I'm worried it would backfire and she would say she had no intention of it going further. It's a good thing she doesn't go to my school, though. Then this would be more complicated. This way I can still barricade my and block her. And I've seen recent pictures of her on Facebook. She hasn't changed.
And what "way" would that be? The way of being a friend to someone on the internet? Holy shit, this is why Teenagers aren't taken seriously and aren't assumed to be logically smart until they reach 20.
UNLESS SHE OPENLY SAID SHE WANTS TO DATE YOU.. YOU'RE JUST ASSUMING SHE WANTS YOUR 14 YEAR OLD PENIS!
Unless you're neglecting to post the "important" parts of the conversation(s) you've had with her, that leads to her openly insinuating she wants more than to just casually talk to you - then all you're doing at this point is just making your penis talk for you.
This thread is just full of hopeless romantics.
Aye. Like in the movie
You've Got Mail kinda hopeless romantics.
If she's fat and has blue hair, I'm pretty sure she'll do the really, reeeeallllly freaky stuff for you dude. I say tap that.
THIS! Blue hair'd girls are freaky based on the fact that they have blue fucking hair. You don't dye your hair in some off the wall color that isn't "natural" in some term - if you wanna be a prude.
Hmmmmmm. Interesting theory. Doesn't sound like something I'd do though.
No offense, but you likely wouldn't know what to do if you could do it.
Why are we all talking about sex anyways? The kid is fourteen years old, the only girls who are putting out at 14 are DEFINATELY not the kind of girls you want to sleep with in the first place.
Agreed. Wait until they're at least 16 (legal in most areas) then you can be assured of getting a mostly clean, unused Female.
I'm with Xfear. I have no plans to have sex at this point.
Not by choice, I'm sure.
just tell her to fuck off if you dont like her. I dont think she would bother you after that.
Blunt and to the point. It works - you'd be shockingly surprised how well, actually.
Seriously though, Pat, just keep talking to her as a friend. If SHE initiates something more or eludes by clear factors that she wants more than a friendship - then tell her you're sorry, but you simply aren't interested.
She can't (logically, anyways) blame you for not being interested.
And if you don't even want to keep her as a friend - just tell her bluntly that you honestly don't enjoy talking and she annoys you.