I'm not saying a homosexual man will begin swinging punches, but it's all part of the attitude which is cultivated. When you make "gay" and "bad" synonymous, then people grow up thinking homosexuals are "bad". And that then leads to the hate crimes against homosexuals, of which this country has seen many.But c'mon Fox, "inducing hatred and violence" from saying "That's Gay"? Isn't that kind of a stretch buddy?
You know as well as I do that "coming out of the closet" is a big deal for a lot of homosexuals. In fact, many try to pretend they're not gay, and get married, have kids, etc. But the discomfiture they feel is no less because they try to pretend they are straight, and to hear people tell them how bad of a person they must be for being gay is not easy."Mental and Psychological unease" how fragile are these people?
Would you say that to a fat girl who turned anorexic because people kept picking on her for being fat? Would you tell this girl the only reason it bothered her people made fun of her for being fat is because it's her own fault?I'm more concerned with THAT. If you're so fragile and sensitive maybe you've got some other issues to deal with and your "mental and psychological unease" has little to nothing to do with anyone else, it's you.
That's essentially what you're saying to gay people right now. You're saying a homosexual who feels uncomfortable because the people around him are talking about kicking some ******'s ass is only uncomfortable because they have a problem. It's not because the people around them are threatening physical violence, it's the homosexual's problem.
Again, it's just a matter of respect. If you're with your friends who you know don't care if you call them a ******, then so be it. But if your speech and/or writing can be delivered to people you don't know and might not be comfortable with it, then you should be polite and not make another person uncomfortable.Here on WZ or in your class, those are different scenarios and I agree that you're well within your right in both cases to say "this is acceptable, this is not acceptable" there have to be rules and boundaries. I am by no means suggesting either, that you should throw any words around as freely as you want, in any situation, with total disregard for others. However, isn't it kind of bullshit the way people have to walk around on egg shells worrying who you're going to offend in every walk of life?
I know what you're saying, and many times I agree. But even though we agree, it doesn't change the fact many people are uncomfortable with those words, and many people who are uncomfortable have legitimate reasons for being so.
No more than when you put a gun in someone's face and tell them you want to shoot them. Freedom of expression is not absolute, never has been and never will be.Isn't this kind of an infringement on people outside of that demographic's freedom of expression, which is held in such high regard by the very group of people who are saying "You can't say that because I don't like it"?
Oh, I disagree completely. You are as much within your rights to tell a gay man to quit being flamboyant as you are to tell a teenage couple who just discovered "making out" to quit kissing.I certainly can't tell a gay man not to act so effeminate because it's offensive to me
That doesn't make you prejudiced at all, not in my book. But if you would tell that effeminate gay man to "quit acting like a ******", then that would be crossing the line.
No, it's not that simple. For example, when the NAACP gets pissed because I say LeBron James is a black man, I'll tell the NAACP to kiss my ass. In this case, just because the NAACP doesn't like, doesn't mean what they say should be adhered to. But when I use a word which indicates prejudice, like if I called LeBron James a ******, then the NAACP would be right in getting pissed.How is using the word, that the homosexual community recognizes themselves as suddenly a slur when some else uses it in a way they don't like? Is it simply because they don't like it? Anything they don't like is immediately a slur at that point? it's immediately hateful and homophobic?
It's the same with saying something is gay. When someone says "that's gay", they are usually doing it in a demeaning way, which suggests that gay is synonymous with bad. This makes it a prejudiced term, because you are saying that being gay is equal to being bad.
So it's not that gay community say it's bad which means you shouldn't use it, it's what the term implies. ****** implies that black people are dirty, contemptible, inferior, etc. and that's just simply not true, which is why it's a prejudiced term. "That's gay" implies that being gay and being bad are the same thing, which is also not true. This is why those terms should not be used.
No, and that idea is completely bullshit. Gay people should have no more right to say "that's gay" in a bad reference than black people do to call one another a "******". Either the word is bad or it's not, you don't get it both ways. If it's bad, then NO ONE should use it.I'm just saying, they identify themselves as gay, so is this a "n" word thing? It's "their word" now and people have ownership of words and their uses?
When people are being killed because of their homosexuality, then I would say yes. We don't need to continue teaching future generations that being gay is bad. Even if you think homosexuality is wrong, it's not something which should be used to put down another group of people, for no better reason than you simply can't think of another way to express disappointment.That's a fair point. On the flip side of the coin, is it necessary to be so uptight about that either?
Weak is not a generally recognized classification of people. Also, MOST people who are not physically strong can improve that. People who are homosexual can't exactly turn themselves straight, no matter how much many of them wish they could.I myself generally say "Oh, well that's weak" in the same fashion people would say "Oh, well that's gay". So at some point am I going to offend someone who is not physically strong?