This anti-rape campaign has been going for a few years now, and you can buy those Lance Armstrong style bracelet things if you want to support it. Essentially the idea is that if a girl says no, it's not ok to have sex with her. The fact that not everybody in the world is inherently aware of that is incredibly depressing, but sadly, some people need to be reminded of such things.
However, the more I think about it, the less suitable it is. Sure, if a girl says no, it doesn't mean she should be forced into having sex. That's an absolute given. But what if she doesn't say yes? Rape cases these days are much less man jumping out of bushes, and much more two drunk people getting really drunk and having drunken sex with each other. When they did that reddit thread on rape recently, most fell into this category, of coercion rather than brute force.
In this case, the girl may not have said the word "no", possibly because she's too drunk to even do so. Does that mean the guy has a carte blanche to do what he wants, just because she left the club with him under her own volition? I don't think so, which is why I think consent should be exactly that consent, not the absence of a rejection. We don't assume most people are ok with being mugged until they say otherwise, so why do we tolerate the same for rape?
However, the more I think about it, the less suitable it is. Sure, if a girl says no, it doesn't mean she should be forced into having sex. That's an absolute given. But what if she doesn't say yes? Rape cases these days are much less man jumping out of bushes, and much more two drunk people getting really drunk and having drunken sex with each other. When they did that reddit thread on rape recently, most fell into this category, of coercion rather than brute force.
In this case, the girl may not have said the word "no", possibly because she's too drunk to even do so. Does that mean the guy has a carte blanche to do what he wants, just because she left the club with him under her own volition? I don't think so, which is why I think consent should be exactly that consent, not the absence of a rejection. We don't assume most people are ok with being mugged until they say otherwise, so why do we tolerate the same for rape?