Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
ok ok ok ok. do what you need to do big guy, long as your happy
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[Official] All Things Becca Thread
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ok ok ok ok. do what you need to do big guy, long as your happy
Nope...I'd probably be single now, but my best friend goes to college with her, and set us up...
I did have a blind date last Valentine's Day, and that was working out well, but then she found out I have a son, and said she wan't sure if she could handle a relationship like that...Otherwise, no luck with relationships, and rare good luck with the fun stuff...
I'm definitely happy with her...I attribute most of her "faults", to her being 4 years younger than me, and still learning how to be in a mature relationship...She is still learning that I have my priorities, and she doesn't need to be one of them...
Lucky bastard.
The last two girlfriends I had just lay there most of the time, While I serviced them.
Oh yeah i forgot about the son. It must be hard getting in a relationship with him. No offence to him i am just saying .
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
eh. thats women in general. self centered, selfish peices of crap
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
which is totally fucking stupid. I dont get it at all. I couldnt care less is a girl I am talking to has a child. I dont get why it matters
He was only "in the way" that once...The other times I've been close to a relationship, it was because they were already with someone, and realized that the hot guy they were with, wasn't treating them anything like the ugly guy that wanted them...
All the other fun stuff, was mostly done to try and smother the pain, or fill the void left by everything I went through with "the ex". I was in a bad way for a long time over her...
Bernkastel
Reaper of Miracles
I don't suffer much with women
It really doesn't matter...Most people refuse to acknowledge that. It's not that hard to seperate being a Dad, from being a boyfriend. My g/f knows that if something happens to where my son needs me, and all of me, that she's on the back burner until further notice. He's always going to be my main priority, but I do have a life outside of being a dad. It's hard to explain, without sounding like an asshole father...
Well maybe to you , but other people care. Like if a get in a relationship when i am older i am hoping it's so i get married and taking care of a child would just be like doing another job. It's hard work. It's like saying i am gonna work from 9-5 for my first job then work until the kid goes to bed.
Bernkastel
Reaper of Miracles
except for the women in my family
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
number 1.
the child thing ISNT that fucking hard. one of the most overrated things on the planet really.
2. I still dont get why it matters.
the child thing ISNT that fucking hard. one of the most overrated things on the planet really.
2. I still dont get why it matters.
HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
I can see why it bothers people. But it wouldn't bother me if my boyfriend had a child.
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
like I siad, I dont understand what the big deal is. I dont get why people look at as negative. I see it as psoitive, becuase I need a girl who is mature, and responsible. having a child, most of the time, forces that.
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
explain it to me then, please??
"The child thing" is excruciatingly hard, when it's your own. If it's someone else's, you control how close you are to the child, and then it's your own fault if it gets hard...When my g/f first stayed at my house, I told her that she could only stay if she fully understood what being woken up by my son meant. I knew that when he saw her there, he was going to need her attention on him. So she needed to be prepared of 10 minutes of wrestling, 10 minutes of coloring books, 10 minutes of singing the alphabet, 10 minutes of finger painting, and all the other ADD shit that comes with being 5 yrs old...
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
I think you misundertsnad me. I meant caring for a child, doing the parenting shit, is way blown out of porportion, and not nearly as hard as everyone makes it out to be. Maybe becuase im a big kid myself, so I readily enjoy 10 minutes of wrestling/finger painting an coloring books
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
Bex, is taking care of jess hard???
My ex and I split when he was almost a year old. For the next year or two, I looked for a girl that would make me happy. A girl with a nice body, that liked my style of music, and would be wild in bed. Then I took a dose of reality, and realized I needed a woman who was mature enough to handle everything that came with me being a dad. I started to notice the single moms a little more, and wasn't shy about saying I had a son. The only reason I "hid" it with the girl I went on the blind date with, was because my friend told me she didn't want kids. I don't want any more either, so I didn't think my son would be a problem if it was talked about the right way
Norcal . Please tell me, have you actually looked after a kid for more than 2 weeks?
I think you misundertsnad me. I meant caring for a child, doing the parenting shit, is way blown out of porportion, and not nearly as hard as everyone makes it out to be. Maybe becuase im a big kid myself, so I readily enjoy 10 minutes of wrestling/finger painting an coloring books
Caring for Zack (my son), and doign all the parenting stuff is hard. It sucks trying to cram 8 hours of sleep in to a 30 minutes nap time. It sucks cooking a good dinner while trying to stop him from burning the house down. I always need to have an eye and an ear on something across the house, and I need to be extra careful wherever we go...
99% of the time, I love the hyper-activity...Other times, I want to sit down in a dark room, and be alone with my thoughts for 10 seconds...
I'm sure that if I had my son when I was 29, instead of 19, it'd be a much different story. Also if the ex didn't turn into what she did...
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
funny as ive lived with two 2 year olds isnce they were born, and have cared for them during their parents various leavings for work, and on a dialy basis, including all facets of parenting. so no, not two weeks, two years.
*ASS*
HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
I won't lie and say it's always easy, because it's not. But I don't think it's 'hard', and I wouldn't swap it for anything. There are hard moments, yes. But most of them spring from the fact I'm not actually her mum, rather than anything else.
HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
Well you'd be taking on a child that's not yours, for a start. And it eliminates chance of it being 'just a fun thing'.
Because the forums stupid ^
Mighty NorCal
SHALL WE BEGIN?
kinda like ive done for, ya know, every day of my life for the last two years?? Once again, i dont get why it matters.
Pulling bodies out of wreckage is hard. not sleeping for weeks and having things blow up all around you is hard. pulling burnt human beings out of torture chambers is hard. watching people kill each other in disaster zones fighting over food and clothing and having to choose who to shoot down is hard.
taking care of a beautiful child, is NOT fucking hard. come now.
