FromTheSouth
You don't want it with me.
This is what kids do. They bitch about these things because this is the world they know. When they get older, they know more of the world and bitch about that. After college, these same people find problems with the economy, with politicians, and with laws.
This bitching is just the normal formulation of problem solving skills.
I think your choice to skip these problems is worse than the kids themselves. You are judging people for doing normal things.
The problem lies in you. These kids are growing up at their pace. You choice to avoid this "drama" is a mistake. Instead of trying to grow up fast and impress adults that don't value your opinion, you are refusing to smell the roses, which is a detriment to you.
Be a kid. High school and college are for learning social skills, and dismissing all of your peers as beneath you does not bode well for your future. Believe me, they probably hate you more than you hate them because you act high and mighty.
When you get to college, are you going to dismiss people because they are out drinking and having sex? The problems are the same, just on the next emotional level. If you skip this level, you will be ill prepared for the next level, and will not have fun in college, which is the most fun you will ever have.
This bitching is just the normal formulation of problem solving skills.
I think your choice to skip these problems is worse than the kids themselves. You are judging people for doing normal things.
The problem lies in you. These kids are growing up at their pace. You choice to avoid this "drama" is a mistake. Instead of trying to grow up fast and impress adults that don't value your opinion, you are refusing to smell the roses, which is a detriment to you.
Be a kid. High school and college are for learning social skills, and dismissing all of your peers as beneath you does not bode well for your future. Believe me, they probably hate you more than you hate them because you act high and mighty.
When you get to college, are you going to dismiss people because they are out drinking and having sex? The problems are the same, just on the next emotional level. If you skip this level, you will be ill prepared for the next level, and will not have fun in college, which is the most fun you will ever have.