And how, pretell, is he NOT being a man?
He's just coming for some support right now, this literally JUST happened to him, he has friends on this forum that he talks to regularly like a lot of other people on here. How is that not being a man? By your reasoning, we should just all say fuck it to our friends when life shits on us, and just buck up and deal with it on our own. Yeah, that sounds nice and all, but sometimes that shit gets too much and y'know you kind of need support from ohhh idk.. your friends.
I'm sure he will rebound from this, i'm sure he will figure something out, he's not asking for a fuckin' handout or anything all he's doing is looking for some god damn support right now. For you to get on his case, especially right after this all just happened, is fucked up and shows how much of a classless piece of shit you are.
Seriously dude, YOU are the one that needs to grow the fuck up.