The thing is, with all due respect no matter how you try to justify that particular line or call me a hypocrite for calling you out on it and then liking offensive jokes there is one key difference that I wish you would accept and is the difference between the two.
In your RP the "joke" was effectively "lol she got raped" there is nothing funny, witty or clever about that. It wasn't a joke about the act it was a joke about the victim and that there is the crucial difference. The 'dead baby' in those jokes isn't a baby we know or are expected to be emotionally invested in - its a throwaway standard joke not to dissimilar to "what's brown and sticky?"
I don't find any of the jokes I posted funny because dead babies are funny, I find them funny because they are witty or clever, they involve some form of wordplay in a way that makes them funny.
The reason that I took issue with your RP all those months ago had nothing to do with the rape joke necessarily, hell one of my favourite jokes is of that nature. It was the way in which you effectively had a character get raped and then wrote it off as a joke rather than doing something more worthy with it. You gave us a character we were supposed to care about, hell she was crucial to your feud with Alhazred, and then you as a writer chose to imply that she had been raped in a clumsy and frankly terrible way that is really reminiscent of what victims of that crime actually experience and then had the gall to defend it by calling it a joke.
If you are too childish to understand why that made me think less of you then I honestly despair. Especially since we agreed to let it be. However, the way you reacted and responded to the jokes that I posted by calling me a hypocrite serves only to demonstrate that you are in fact extremely childish and have a fundamental lack of understanding about what makes things funny.
Also this is not me calling you out, do not consider a lack of response from me in any way a concession of defeat. This is the last I have to say on the matter both publicly and privately as since you brought it up in the way you did I felt like I should make sure my original grievance with you was fully articulated. Now please can you just let it lie.