Why can't I say no?

[Capt. Charisma]

To going out on a saturday night. Everytime somebody asks me to, I go out. Even if I feel like shit, or planned on staying in I can't do it. Advice please.

 

[Y 2 Jake]

Go out. In a couple of years when your mates settle down you'll hardly go out at all.

 

[Capt. Charisma]

Yea but I'm going to uni next year, I'll have 3 solid years of going out pretty much every night then. Plus night's out in Cumbria are often worse than nights in.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

^^^^^fact^^^^^

I used to be the same way, actually. No matter how I felt, what else I wanted to do at home, how little sleep I had, I couldnt turn down their exuberent faces. Keep doing it. enjoy these days. They will end someday, and you will long for them.

 

[Jonny B]

Suck it up and go get drunk.

 

[Y 2 Jake]

I wish I was going out every week like I used to. It takes it's toll, but you'll look back and be glad you went out all the time.

 

[Capt. Charisma]

lol it makes me laugh when I read all the papers blame everything bad on binge drinking and make out like everyone is against it. 90% of the adult population actively encourages and, doesn't give a shit about kids going out and getting pissed.

 

[Jonny B]

Going out is fun... going to work while still drunk/hung over is fun. Pulling random girls is fun. I fail to see why you wouldn't want to go out.

 

[Y 2 Jake]

going to work while still drunk/hung over is fun.

Depends if you're sick. 8 hours on a Saturday used to be horrible when I was being sick everywhere.

 

[Capt. Charisma]

Going out is fun... going to work while still drunk/hung over is fun. Pulling random girls is fun. I fail to see why you wouldn't want to go out.

Have you ever visited the lake district? The girls here are like parking spaces either taken or disabled.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

all of what jonny said = fun

fun > not fun

 

[Mighty NorCal]

Have you ever visited the lake district? The girls here are like parking spaces either taken or disabled.

meh. commute somewere. It aggravates me when dudes from work complain about the girls and that there is nothing to do, when utter debuachery awaits 30 minutes up the highway lol

 

[Capt. Charisma]

meh. commute somewere. It aggravates me when dudes from work complain about the girls and that there is nothing to do, when utter debuachery awaits 30 minutes up the highway lol

yea thats true.. I visit my mates already at uni in Manchester and Newcastle as much as I can, but it costs money.

 

[TheOneBigWill]

Is this a thread about trying to give advice to someone who DOESN'T wanna go out and have fun?

Tell your friends that you've lost all meaning for your penis and you refuse to become social. Explain to them that you've pretty much lived life to what you feel is the fullest and then explain that you no longer crave going out with them, and their usefulness has ran its course.

 

[misskim]

I go to Uni and I can tell you that it's not at all what it's hyped up to be, if you party everynight you have no chance of passing your classes unless you study something hippyish

 

[Total Impact]

Just say no I don't feel like it. Or say you are broke, have no money.