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Supposedly ''dumbfuckistan'' does. I didn't.
Thank God Michigan avoided the rest of the mid-west.
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Supposedly ''dumbfuckistan'' does. I didn't.
Have you never been in a public shower before? Is that really how you imagine it? Boners and sexual tension everywhere?
Uncle Chester does raise a good practical point, albeit stated in an inflammatory manner. Also, I don't think it's been addressed properly. What if a homosexual finds a a straight man attractive and they're platooned/stationed with each other? This isn't to say that DADT prevented enlisted homosexuals from making a pass at their comrades, but will a tolerant attitude encourage such behavior?
I think this issue delves deeper than just discrimination. The issue of the role sex should play in active duty is what's at the heart of this matter.
But think about it this way. What would happen if you were a soldier and took showers with the female soldiers. You'd get a boner, so naturally a gay man would get a boner of other men would they not. I support gay marriage and I don't give a shit if someone's gay but cammon separate showers.
Update: the vote on nothing but DADT comes up Saturday. Allegedly there are enough moderate GOP Senators to pass it and break that moronic filibuster. I'll believe it when I see it.
I think the point the Reps wanna stress at is wouldn't it make YOU uncomfortable showering and knowing that the guy next to you could be oogling you?
It does tug at at an awkward chord but then again, you're at war. Survive a car bomb first, try and have sex later. I do think most of them have their priorities sorted out.
I think Norcal raised this as a problem before and while it is a legit concern, here's the thing: if homosexuals are allowed to serve in the military in secret, wouldn't the feelings be the same either way? If a homosexual soldier makes a pass at a straight soldier and is turned down, then how is that any more of a threat than a straight soldier making a pass at a female soldier and being turned down?
1. As I said in my original post, I don't know if DADT has prevented gay men from making passes. However, its potential repeal still leaves open the question of whether or not such actions would encourage them to proposition men they find attractive.
2. Kenny Powers already provided the information I needed for this point: when deployed, women and men in the military shower and bed separately. It's going to be a lot more awkward and potentially damaging to deny someone that you have to shower and sleep in the same quarters with than someone you don't. I don't think I'm alone when I say that I believe intimate living situations is a breeding ground for sexual attraction (and maybe even consensual sexual activity if the attraction's mutual).
Well of course it won't prevent people from hitting on people they find attractive regardless of gender. That being said, it also doesn't mean gay soldiers are going to be walking up to a solider they find attractive naked and asking if the straight soldier likes what he sees. Also it might help knowing who is gay rather than wondering if someone is and being unsure about who might be and having it turn into a near guessing game that could distract a soldier.
Easy answer from me on this: sexual attraction does not equal acting on that attraction.
1. We don't know for certain what the repeal DADT will do except allow gay men to proclaim their homosexuality to their colleagues. I'm not arguing a slippery slope here; I don't think repealing DADT will turn all gay men into sex fiends with one-track minds. I do, however, think it will make them much more open to propositioning other males (again, this only deals with homosexuality at the surface; the more significant issue is how much of a role sex should play in the life of a soldier on active duty).
One-third of all females in the American military are raped. Not saying that gay men are all going to be rapists (or that men in the military are all rapists), but I am saying that there are some things in the military that are conducive to non-consensual sex.