HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
Its a 50/50 thing. Some people don't change from these events. Some people give their children up for adoption because they refuse to change in their own life, to raise a child and alter whats always been fun for them.
Therefore, they don't change what they've always done, because a child came into the picture. They get rid of the child, and continue living their exact same lives.
However, in other cases, obviously yes marriage and children change everything. Its an argument that can go either way, depending on how you wish to look at it. Becca and Yourself wish to look at it as if ending up in a relationship for someone be it for an hour or years, that it'll warp and change your life forever. Which in some cases could be true.
On the other end, Wes and Brian are arguing that they aren't changing for anyone. They remain who they are and do all the same things they love to do before entering any type of relationship. The only thing thats changed is having sex with the person, or entering into the agreement that they're no longer "single."
Personally: I agree that entering into most relationships alters and changes your life forever. However I'm not discontinuing the fact that some people simply refuse to accept change and they'll give up a child if it means living their life the same way as it was before. Therefore you can't argue that its changed anything, when to some, it doesn't.
Gosh Will I post in the bar room for a reason - to get away from the long posts like this when I don't have the time or energy to read and reply lol.
Basically, I will also never change for anyone, stop doing things I've always done etc. But you change automatically when with someone with your control, it affects your life. And it doesn't mean physically stopping/starting doing different things, but it teaches you things for a start, such as if one girlfriend broke up with you because you did something, most people would learn not to do it the next time. That in affect, has changed you and how you act.
As you said, they don't change how they act, I wouldn't either. I'd never miss rugby, or stop watching wrestling, or not do anything I enjoy, but being in a relationship changes you, whether you break up, or you stay together, your life is affected by it.
Having kids, putting them up for adoption or not, would change your life in some way, unless you were a fater and you didn't know about the child. There's no way someone could give a child up for adoption and completely forget about it. Some people feel the need to use adoption, something I agree with if the person thinks it'll give the child a better life, but I very very highly doubt people have a child, give it up for adoption, and never think about it again, or act differently regarding children or pregnancy.