Uh first of all my step daughter is on birth control. She's still a virgin (any of you motherfuckers get any sick ideas in your head, leave. Now. Immediately.) and she's been on birth control for over a year now.
Do you know what she was like when she was on her period before getting on the pill? A raging bitch to say the least. And that's not mincing words.
She gets put on birth control, she's relatively her usual self. That in itself is a blessing.
Now let's go further. Let's say she decides to have sex one day. Let's say she's not on birth control. Let's say the condom breaks. No secondary defense and now I'm a soon to be step grandfather. All it takes is one time, even if you're wearing a condom. Even if the woman is on birth control and the man is wearing a condom, it can happen. The point is would you like to have a 50% effectiveness rate or a 95% effectiveness rate? I'll throw my lot in the 95%.
So just because my stepdaughter is on birth control suddenly makes her a ****e? Fuck you if you think that way. She's on the pill because it helps regulate her hormones which means she doesn't bite my fucking head off over every little thing, and as a precautionary measure in case she does decide to become active sexually.
Sorry, it's 20 motherfucking 12. Get with the times. We ain't in the fucking 50's anymore. Women have every right to be sexual if they choose to be. If my stepdaughter decides to have sex, well what's really stopping her from doing so? I'm not going to be a fucking hypocrite because I was doing the same shit back then. That said I will sit down and discuss with her on how to be safe and that she does take her birth controls on time. If she does become sexually active that does not make her a ****e, that makes her a human being with the same god damn urges that we all got.
And this all of course will pertain to my 2 year old when she gets up there in age. You motherfuckers who want to say women are ****es, look in the fucking mirror. How many times have you looked at a woman and said something like "Damn look how hot she is or, holy fuck is she fine" (guilty as charged on my own, truuuuuust me). I'm not saying we need to go full blown feminist movement with this shit, I'm just saying maybe you should take a step back and shut the fuck up about women's bodies and what they can or cannot take. They aren't yours, you need to let them be in the fucking discussion about their own bodies. Taking a pill to prevent pregnancy is the same thing as guys carrying a condom in our pocket. It doesn't mean we're going to go fuck everything with two legs, it means that if the situation arises, we are prepared for said situation to prevent something from happening. Sex is about stimulation 99% of the time nowadays. For fuck sake in the marriage retreat shit I had to do, in a Catholic church mind you, they taught us family planning SO YOU COULD PLAN ON WHEN TO HAVE SEX MERELY FOR THE ENJOYMENT OF IT SO YOU WOULDN'T GET PREGNANT.
Yes. That's right. Even fucking hardcore born again Catholics are teaching how to get it on safely. Problem is, I ain't trusting my mind to keep control of my dick so contraceptives it is. I realize of course they aimed that family planning for married couples blah blah blah. Same concept could be used in a committed non married relationship however, the fact remains that they're teaching how to have sex without having to worry about the reproductive part of it.
So please, quit acting like every woman that's on birth control is a ****e. Next time you go buy a box of condoms, let me know so I can call you a ****e in return as well. Because clearly buying condoms gives you the same go ahead pass that birth control give women according to that theory.