I'm single

[The Big Gunnzbowski]

Honestly, my first thought was to call up one of the many skanks I used to fuck before we were together. Then I thought about it and realized no matter what, the only reason I want to fuck a chick isn't because of the sex but because of the company. I haven't slept alone but maybe once or twice in the past 2 years and now it's just me. It's such a shit feeling to have a piece of you missing.The absolute worst part though is it was my fault. I usually don't play the blame game but there was so much more I could have done. Seeing that she was the best friend I've ever had, I never told her enough. A super rough fucking start this is going to be.

In slightly lighter news, my friends made an awesome effort to comfort me today. The friends that I hadn't been close with for a while because me and my ex were so exiled all of the time, they still cared enough to know that I really needed someone. That's awesome and it really makes me feel better.

Like NorCal said, post-break up random sex leaves you feeling worse... You feel like a shitty person, because of it. And if she finds out, any shot you had is forever lost... If it's one thing that I found out about my situation, it was that my best friend was there for me to help pick up the pieces. I will always love him for that, because without him, I don't know how far I would have fallen. That's a really noble thing your friend did... It shows you that he's a true friend, which is something you need right now. Also, in regards to what NorCal said about finding something to occupy yourself with, it couldn't be any more true. I know you probably feel a lack of motivation to do ANYTHING right now, but start trying something you like to do gradually. Try and fill empty space in the day with mind occupying activities. It will be more beneficial for you than any of us could ever explain. You have to prove to yourself that you're still alive, no matter how dead you feel inside!

 

[Via Armbar]

Motivation is severely lacking right now. I haven't slept more than 6 hours in the past 3 days and I haven't eaten no more than 2000 calories worth of anything in those three days either. It's starting to get to me because my head is pounding and my throat is raw. I just...don't have the desire to do anything. With time I guess it will wear off. I've been hit before, I've been in plenty of fights, I've broken bones..this ranks above them all as most painful. Sounds lame I know but it seriously feels like my mid section was torn apart.

 

[Fuel The Fire]

Well Im not good with all of the you want a hug and a shoulder to cry on kind of stuff but the best i can do is offer you this.

 

[RVDgurl]

I'm not one to throw out personal shit on here, either, but you've compelled me to share. I've been going through hell with my boyfriend for the past couple of weeks and I'm pretty sure things are not going to work out. I know how it feels to be lost because right now it feels like I'm in slow motion and everything else is just passing me by.

We bought a house together, share bank accounts, etc. It's completely overwhelming knowing I'm probably going to have to start over when this relationship was supposed to be forever. I keep reminding myself that I made it before on my own therefore I can do it again.

Losing someone you love with all your heart sucks, but life will go on. Armbar, keep your head up.

 

[The Big Gunnzbowski]

Motivation is severely lacking right now. I haven't slept more than 6 hours in the past 3 days and I haven't eaten no more than 2000 calories worth of anything in those three days either. It's starting to get to me because my head is pounding and my throat is raw. I just...don't have the desire to do anything. With time I guess it will wear off. I've been hit before, I've been in plenty of fights, I've broken bones..this ranks above them all as most painful. Sounds lame I know but it seriously feels like my mid section was torn apart.

Doesn't sound lame in the slightest, bud. Sounds like a broken heart to me! You gotta eat something though. Don't tear yourself apart over it, because your health and well-being should be priority right now. I can't recommend anything, because now that I think about it, nothing seemed to help me at the time. The only thing I can say is, try to be alone as little as possible. It's alot harder when you're alone all the time. Get out and try and hang out with friends. Keep good company if you can, because human interaction may be the only thing that helps you stay sane over the next few weeks. When others know you're hurting, they usually try and help console you. Anything but loneliness is your ally at this point, Armbar.

 

[Pepe Silvia]

What's the word bro

 

[Pepe Silvia]

Well Im not good with all of the you want a hug and a shoulder to cry on kind of stuff but the best i can do is offer you this.

Holy shit, Alyson who?

 

[Via Armbar]

Still sucks. I've been meaning to go on MSN but I've been completely losing my mind so I've been lifting all day. And dancing. No joke. I'm a big dancer.

 

[Pepe Silvia]

Have you even tried talking to her since we last talked?

 

[Via Armbar]

No. I said what I needed to say to her. It really sucks but really there's nothing I can do at this point. I honestly hope we can be friends one day because she's the best friend I've ever had and a large piece to my puzzle.

 

[Pepe Silvia]

Have you told her at least that? The whole friends thing?

 

[Via Armbar]

She knows. It's not the right time. There would be absolutely no way for me to hangout with her and not cry like a boob or act like an idiot. We are on different paths right now. Maybe they'll cross again, maybe they won't. We will see when we get there.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

The friends thing never works. Ever. Save yourself the trauma, man.

 

[Rhonda Rousey's Sports Bra]

True, it might get you laid once or twice but it's not worth the heartache.

 

[Lee]

It seems all the sound advice has been offered, and really saying "chin up mate" is pretty much the worst thing to say. However if you need a random chin wag, your fellow Zelda geek is here for you.

 

[Via Armbar]

It seems all the sound advice has been offered, and really saying "chin up mate" is pretty much the worst thing to say. However if you need a random chin wag, your fellow Zelda geek is here for you.

 

[Mr. Steve]

No. I said what I needed to say to her. It really sucks but really there's nothing I can do at this point. I honestly hope we can be friends one day because she's the best friend I've ever had and a large piece to my puzzle.

This is best you could do, man. Trust me, I went through the same thing you just described right there. Not the same situation, but I took that same path you did. If anything, I just took comfort on the fact that the planet keeps spinning. She may be a large part of the puzzle now, but later on, the puzzle gets bigger, and she gets smaller.

Strange analogy, but it's the best I could come up with.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

that was actually fuckin incredible. Awesome analogy.

 

[The Big Gunnzbowski]

Still sucks. I've been meaning to go on MSN but I've been completely losing my mind so I've been lifting all day. And dancing. No joke. I'm a big dancer.

Anything to keep you occupied, bro

 

[Via Armbar]

That was an awesome way to put things Steve. When talking to my friends about it the best way I can desribe it is it's like losing a huge piece to your life puzzle. You just keep thinking that nothing else will fit as well as that one piece did. Great way to put it