I thought the post you quoted addressed it fairly well
You thought wrong. The point of my question is, you're going to uproot your entire life and move across country to live with her after only meeting her one time, for a short period of time? Am i missing something, or is that what you have been saying? You've talked multiple times about her visit to DC and how that is when you plan on meeting her. Are you basing your decision to move in with her after meeting her in DC?