Are YOU a Bully?

I dont like bullying for the record, but I still dont think what was done to Coco was any worse than has been done to others in the past. You want to see bullying go check out the Oncewalkerr thread or something. We've all had hate threads against us (even me, I started my own) and its standard procedure for one person to become hated in the Bar Room and cop most of the flack.

Coco just took things way too seriously, call me heartless for saying this but thats his own fault really, we shouldn't have to give people special treatment because they cant handle it when 95% of the posting population can handle it.

Oh and to the dude that said they were bullied, if you didn't get the joke I dont hate you and I dont want to kill you. I might pee on you a little though.
 
Jonny B said:
I dont like bullying for the record, but I still dont think what was done to Coco was any worse than has been done to others in the past. You want to see bullying go check out the Oncewalkerr thread or something. We've all had hate threads against us (even me, I started my own) and its standard procedure for one person to become hated in the Bar Room and cop most of the flack.

Coco just took things way too seriously, call me heartless for saying this but thats his own fault really, we shouldn't have to give people special treatment because they cant handle it when 95% of the posting population can handle it.

Oh and to the dude that said they were bullied, if you didn't get the joke I dont hate you and I dont want to kill you. I might pee on you a little though.
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Jonny, we've been "arguing" all day, and I have to agree with everything you've said, as well as thank you for "appoligizing" to the previous poster.
 
Jonny B said:
Oh and to the dude that said they were bullied, if you didn't get the joke I dont hate you and I dont want to kill you. I might pee on you a little though.
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ME? I never said I was bullied. I don't care about the rep or the rep comment (or even the pee). I know how the bar room works. I think your mixing me up with someone else. Unless you threatned to kill and pee on two people today.
 
e-bullying is not real bullying. I don't take anything seriously on here, mainly because I feel like I'm not talking to real people. That make any sense?
 
Slim Pickns said:
ME? I never said I was bullied. I don't care about the rep or the rep comment (or even the pee). I know how the bar room works. I think your mixing me up with someone else. Unless you threatned to kill and pee on two people today.
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I think he might have been talking about this...

12Asadkins said:
Ever since i started this new school i have been bullied and pushed and stepped and spat on. my boyfriend tries to stick up for me but i'm still being bullied. I need Some Help?
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Jonny B said:
I hate you, I'd bully you
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That first person might have actually been upset or somthing, and didn't know how the bar room worked. I thank Jonny for the appoligy, but I also question wether the first poster even got the message lol
 
Luther_Hull said:
e-bullying is not real bullying. I don't take anything seriously on here, mainly because I feel like I'm not talking to real people. That make any sense?
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I feel that makes sence. To me. Some people can't take a joke, and I will say right now they shouldn't be in the bar room. But if someone does wander in, get bugged, and get offended, do we have to continue bugging?
 
Slim Pickns said:
ME? I never said I was bullied. I don't care about the rep or the rep comment (or even the pee). I know how the bar room works. I think your mixing me up with someone else. Unless you threatned to kill and pee on two people today.
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Nah I wasn't talking to you, and Derf cleared that up well. I insulted alot of people this afternoon couldn't remember if I said I wanted to kill that other kid. And the pee, well that was just funny.

I'm still going to eat your face though.
 
Slim Pickns said:
First, HBK-aholic and Derf, I like both of you a lot. Your posts are great and Derf's sigs are hilarious. However, I STRONGLY disagree with you two on this.
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Well thanks..lol

Anytime I saw an anti-coco thread, I would just leave, I didn't want to get involved. However, I twice got involved and have to say, he did himself no favors. The first time I stuck up for him in a prison thread and he just attack me after that. The second time I tried to tell him to stop arguing with a few people and he came back with immature insults at them.
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I aren't saying he was innocent, at all. But he did not. and I repeat Did not deserve to be treated like he was by almost everyone on this forum. So many threads were opened petioning to get him banner, and basically flaming him. And I know this is the bar room, but seriously, is it any wonder at all he acted the way he did?

Bottom Line- He brought everything on himself. He would give people endless shit and then bitch when they gave it right back. Most of us are adults and he's a little kid. We could handle it, he couldn't.
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No one asks for so many people on a website to 'hate' him as they claimed to. And I only joined in November so maybe I don't know what it was like before, but after I joined, and after New Year I saw that he was no where near as bad as everyone mad out to be and he honestly did try to change from what everyone said. But what was he greated with? A load of shit of so many people on this board.
 
Jonny B said:
I dont like bullying for the record, but I still dont think what was done to Coco was any worse than has been done to others in the past. You want to see bullying go check out the Oncewalkerr thread or something. We've all had hate threads against us (even me, I started my own) and its standard procedure for one person to become hated in the Bar Room and cop most of the flack.
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But as I've said before, someone has to be comfortable with themselves before they can take a joke from others. Whether you understand that or not, Leore clearly didn't have that self confidence.

Coco just took things way too seriously, call me heartless for saying this but thats his own fault really, we shouldn't have to give people special treatment because they cant handle it when 95% of the posting population can handle it.
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But you shouldn't then continue picking on that one person simply because they can't handle it. Something you all did.
 
Luther_Hull said:
e-bullying is not real bullying. I don't take anything seriously on here, mainly because I feel like I'm not talking to real people. That make any sense?
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It's not real to you, yet to someone who doesn't have the confidence you do, it could affect them. I don't take things to heart said about me, but Leore did, and different things upset different people, so just because it didn't seem to affect you, it affected Leore.
 
HBK-aholic said:
No one asks for so many people on a website to 'hate' him as they claimed to. And I only joined in November so maybe I don't know what it was like before, but after I joined, and after New Year I saw that he was no where near as bad as everyone mad out to be and he honestly did try to change from what everyone said. But what was he greated with? A load of shit of so many people on this board.
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Well, Coco would also flame and he would be a pain over MSN too. I dont remember but I remember someone posted an MSN convo before and the whole entire time he was arguing and flaming. Personally I don't have a problem with him, I talk to him over AIM or MSN on occasion. I think he acted the way he did for attention, and thats what everyone gave him, and thats why he acted like that.
 
HBK-aholic said:
But you shouldn't then continue picking on that one person simply because they can't handle it. Something you all did.
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The difference between me and the rest was, Coco knew I was joking. He knew this enough to think he was safe because I liked him... if he thought I liked him then surely he would know everything I said in the Bar Room that would appear as "bullying" was a joke. I always thought a fair bit of the stuff that came his way was a joke... there was also a fair bit that wasn't, but Coco bought alot of that on himself, personally towards the end he seemed to be taking it like one of the boys but by then the damage had already been done.
 
BRIANBECKERISAGOD said:
Well, Coco would also flame and he would be a pain over MSN too. I dont remember but I remember someone posted an MSN convo before and the whole entire time he was arguing and flaming. Personally I don't have a problem with him, I talk to him over AIM or MSN on occasion. I think he acted the way he did for attention, and thats what everyone gave him, and thats why he acted like that.
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As I said, I know he brought a lot of it on himself, but that was due to him and how he feels about himself. I know he shouldn't have acted like he did to a lot of people, but that was one person saying it. Whereas everyone seemed to gang up on him which I think ended up too much.
 
HBK-aholic said:
It's not real to you, yet to someone who doesn't have the confidence you do, it could affect them. I don't take things to heart said about me, but Leore did, and different things upset different people, so just because it didn't seem to affect you, it affected Leore.
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His name was Leore?

That's not the point. The main point is that i'm not a real confident bloke real life. I just realise that I'll never meet anyone on here, so it's nothing like real life, and I don't take anything seriously because of that.
 
Luther_Hull said:
His name was Leore?

That's not the point. The main point is that i'm not a real confident bloke real life. I just realise that I'll never meet anyone on here, so it's nothing like real life, and I don't take anything seriously because of that.
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Luther, call me pathetic if you must, but I have more friends on these forums than I do in real life. I take alot of what is said here serious, but I also know when one is joking and when one is insulting. Perhaps Leore was the same. Who knows. He's gone from the forums now, I shall continue to talk to him through MSN as I find him entertaining.
 
HBK-aholic said:
As I said, I know he brought a lot of it on himself, but that was due to him and how he feels about himself.
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I dont know what you mean here? When i talked to him on MSN or AIM he seemed fine, if it was a confidence problem he should see a counselor. I've visited a teen counselor for years, and it worked wonders.
I know he shouldn't have acted like he did to a lot of people, but that was one person saying it. Whereas everyone seemed to gang up on him which I think ended up too much.
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seriously though, he could have ignored everything. Well at least try, when i joked with him, he knew i was joking because most of the time i was talking to him over AIM or MSN.

IMO he meant well, but he too everything too serious.
 
Jonny B said:
The difference between me and the rest was, Coco knew I was joking. He knew this enough to think he was safe because I liked him... if he thought I liked him then surely he would know everything I said in the Bar Room that would appear as "bullying" was a joke. I always thought a fair bit of the stuff that came his way was a joke... there was also a fair bit that wasn't, but Coco bought alot of that on himself, personally towards the end he seemed to be taking it like one of the boys but by then the damage had already been done.
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Which at the end of the day, is what did it. Whatever he did before I don't think he deserved what he got from a lot of people. I seemed to join at the time everything was really bad for him, and everyone was at him, so I know I can't say that it was all undeserved because I don't know what he was like before. But if he really was that bad, he improved a lot.

What was he banned for anyway?
 
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