HBK-aholic
Shawn Michaels ❤
So if you're going to give the woman the sole right to decide whether or not to keep the child, the sole right over the child, then why do men suddenly become responsible for it if it is ever born? My friend brought up that point at another forum, and I think it blows a gaping hole in the argument so many feminists put out- that women carry the pregnancy, so they should have all rights over the baby. Why isn't that true all the time? If that's the case, then men shouldn't be held accountable when it comes to things like child support for the baby if it is ever born because that's picking and choosing when to give men rights. I don't understand how any feminist who believes that only the woman can decide whether to get an abortion or not, can preach about equal rights. Equal rights only when it's convenient for them maybe, and in the end that's not equal rights at all.
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Dragon
First thing that jumped out is this, and it goes hand in hand with people preaching about 'rights', it's working to their responsibilities, nothing about rights.
I was thinking about this though when I read the sig you had regarding it a while back. It may be helpful if you post that in your next reply actually.
But anyway, the problem with my opinion on this is that there is too many holes in it that people could find a way out of when it came to laws. I have an opinion on it obviously, but I don't know whether it'd work out when it came down to it.
If a woman falls pregnant and the man makes it clear he wants her to have an abortion and she doesn't, it's her responsibility to look after the child. In the same way she shouldn't be forced to have a child, the man shouldn't be forced to have a child either, if only in the emotional sense.
However, for something like a divorce, men, or women, which ever are not the full time carer should have to pay child support and things similar. Because both decided they wanted it, and both need to learn they'd have a responsibility to that child; not to decide they don't want it a few years down the line. They had a child, and with that they both should realise a child is forever.
As I said, all this has big problems, as men could easily say they didn't want her to have the child, when it could be a lie. This could also really upset the child; hearing their father say something like that.
The way it is now, and a vital point you're missing, is that men and women both have to pay child support if they're absent from the majority their childs life, which more often that not is their choice, with some exceptions obviously.