One I think that needs to be addressed is that The Deer Hunter is NOT really a "war" movie in the traditional sense. It's a drama about the effects the war has on a small West Virginia town (Is it West Virginia? I always forget), and that's why in many people's eyes it "takes to long to start up". The Vietnam War parts of the movie are just a chapter to the movie. The Deer Hunter is basically three parts, and the War is one part. And Michael Cimino directs this epic with such ease that's it's almost unphathomable how he managed to screw up his career (creative control+ big ego= movie over budget= Heaven's Gate, one of the biggest bombs of all time that single-handedly bankrupted it's studio). I digress.
The acting is unbelievable. Robert DiNero gives one of his best performances, filled with all the right emotions, nuanced when needed, frenzied at the most tense moments. And Christopher Walken gives his defining performance, as a man who leaves for war so optimistic, so seemingly incorruptible, and loses it all. It's honestly one of the most tragic stories you'll ever see on film. It gets so many comparisions to Apocalypse Now, whereas Full Metal Jacket gets compared with Platoon, most likely because of the the time frames they were released (The Deer Hunter and Apocalypse Now in the late 70's, FMJ and Platoon in the mid-80's). But I think The Deer Hunter has more in common with Full Metal Jacket, in that it is a story about the retaining of one's sanity, one's humanity, even when everything else is lost, including innocence. A lot of people will say that The Deer Hunter is depressing. I find it to be slightly uplifting. In that final scene in the bar, despite the pain and sadness they are all suffering, you know, that they are all going to be alright.
Grease is a fun musical. The performances are good, the songs are catchy, and the 50's setting is flawless. It's a really really good movie. But The Deer Hunter is just fantastic. It wins, hands down, and this is another movie I'm insisting people try and seek out if they've yet to see it.