There is bitching about that, but yeah, Sansa shouters are much louder, and I am not sure I disagree with them, compared to the Tommen and Loras changes, its a big move.
Lets put it this way, if Sansa's story is to evolve into one of her playing the game and avenging her family which people including GRRM and the showrunners are insisting is;then instead of the political thriller its being written as in the books, the show version will closer represent a 70's or 80's exploitation film like "The last House on the left". Its like rape has to be the thing that pushes a woman over the edge. I see their point, although worse happens to a basic unknown at Ramsay's hands in the books, which is why I don't buy the rape itself as a complaint, just the hurdles that were jumped through to make it Sansa and effectively take 2 steps back from the direction they were pushing her in... I am not sure its a wrestling forum topic, and really, I should know better.
If I were the showrunner and expected this backlash, I would have wholly adapted what happened to Jeyne Poole for the hell of it. I think its obvious Sansa isn't a favourite book character of mine.
Difference is probably in the books Sansa is younger and can play the wolf in sheep clothing fake out. The show just made her wear black and become 'dark' Sansa for the cheap pops because GIRLPOWER. They should have just been unforgiving misogynistic like in the books instead of trying to be PC and making awkward mistakes.