It's the family. When you feel the sting of a bcakstabbibg relative, you tend to grow bitter. Where I come from, I learned that religion meant shit in the eyes of people. That what mattered was that you cared for a person. Sadly not everybody shares that view. Sadly, some people treat religion like if it was cult or a fraternity and toss every outsider away. Ignorant to the fact that you're supposed to attract people with your kindness and care. You know the world is fucked up when your own family shuns you and calls you and "ignorant influence". Aparently the people that preach John 3:16 think they are too great and re above their own words. Sadly I couldn't go Austin 3:16 on my "loved" one seeing how I suffered this embarrassment in front of my sick grampa. Class act you are.