I'm engaged
- Thread starter Hyorinmaru
- Start date
Hyorinmaru
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In Europe apparently
Hyorinmaru
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no
Pay Per Ghost
What they f*ck happened in the thread section here
Ah Mi-Mi, you're almost hitched and pitched.
Tell me how are you gonna make long distance work? You know while she's in Oregon.
Tell me how are you gonna make long distance work? You know while she's in Oregon.
Hyorinmaru
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we talk/text every day when she's not studying or in school
ScreaminNormanSmiley
formerly ScreaminNormanSmiley
Are you planning on actually meeting her before the wedding?
Also how is your grandmother going to feel about feeding and providing shelter to another person?
Also how is your grandmother going to feel about feeding and providing shelter to another person?
George Steele's Barber
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What's her dowry?
Congrats.
Congrats.
Nate DaMac
Fuck erbody but me
Congratulations.
Now don't do it.
Now don't do it.
Hyorinmaru
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Hyorinmaru
Sit Upon The Frozen Heavens
Oh, Milenko.
Oh, gods, Milenko.
What part of you thinks that marrying a girl you've never met is a good idea?
Nate DaMac
Fuck erbody but me
No married person is happy. They're all lying.
Nate DaMac
Fuck erbody but me
You can leaved the bold part out and it still holds true.
Uncle Phatso
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My best advice would be actually meet her in person, dude trust me. Talking and texting is nice, but until you actually live with her. It's not the same thing, you don't know what a person is really like until you've been with them 24/7 and down on their worst leg. It's nice to have someone who talks to you, and it's nice that she is there for you. But DO NOT, get married right away.
Fight, argue, live together and be a couple. Because if you don't you will not last a year as a married man. Even if it's a month, live with her before tying the knot. Hopefully it works out, but in the end you are taking a huge shot in the dark here. Good luck
Fight, argue, live together and be a couple. Because if you don't you will not last a year as a married man. Even if it's a month, live with her before tying the knot. Hopefully it works out, but in the end you are taking a huge shot in the dark here. Good luck
Pay Per Ghost
What they f*ck happened in the thread section here
Well you're only engaged, and people here are telling you to atleast live with the girl before tying a knot, in the scrotum as well, I wanna hear you response as to why you wanna go through with this.
The 1-2-3 Killam
Mid-Card Championship Winner
So first of all, congrats! Hopefully everything works out brilliantly and you spend a hell of a lot of happy years together.
I don't really know you, so I'm just going to speak from personal experience here. My ex and I were engaged for a year, but spent that whole time in a long-distance relationship exclusively over texting, talking on the phone, and other means like Skype, Facebook, etc. Only once did I ever see her. It ended up that we decided not to get married, and broke up. Now here's the thing, we were best friends for about 6 years before that, and dated for 3 of them. And the year of long-distance was what eventually did us in, because so much changes in a person's life when you're not around them. Even if you are totally open and talk every day, you're not going to know if you're truly compatible unless you spend real, physical time together.
You do have the advantage of NOT knowing her in the past. So everything you know is current, and not likely to change a whole lot until you see her. But seriously...SEE her. Meet her friends, figure out her body language and see if you're even compatible! Proximity is 9/10 of the relationship, and to go from never having met, to getting married and spending almost 90% of your time together is going to be INSANE.
Anyways, like I said I don't know you, so I'm not going to freak out that much. It's your life, but I'm just speaking from partial experience, and as somebody who accidentally used a very sweet girl in order to get over my long-term ex... I'm sure you both have everyone you know freaking out and telling you this is a terrible idea, so allow me to be one person that wishes you good luck, and hopes that things work out.
I will say, there is absolutely no rush to a decision that should last you the rest of your life.
I don't really know you, so I'm just going to speak from personal experience here. My ex and I were engaged for a year, but spent that whole time in a long-distance relationship exclusively over texting, talking on the phone, and other means like Skype, Facebook, etc. Only once did I ever see her. It ended up that we decided not to get married, and broke up. Now here's the thing, we were best friends for about 6 years before that, and dated for 3 of them. And the year of long-distance was what eventually did us in, because so much changes in a person's life when you're not around them. Even if you are totally open and talk every day, you're not going to know if you're truly compatible unless you spend real, physical time together.
You do have the advantage of NOT knowing her in the past. So everything you know is current, and not likely to change a whole lot until you see her. But seriously...SEE her. Meet her friends, figure out her body language and see if you're even compatible! Proximity is 9/10 of the relationship, and to go from never having met, to getting married and spending almost 90% of your time together is going to be INSANE.
Anyways, like I said I don't know you, so I'm not going to freak out that much. It's your life, but I'm just speaking from partial experience, and as somebody who accidentally used a very sweet girl in order to get over my long-term ex... I'm sure you both have everyone you know freaking out and telling you this is a terrible idea, so allow me to be one person that wishes you good luck, and hopes that things work out.
I will say, there is absolutely no rush to a decision that should last you the rest of your life.
Hyorinmaru
Sit Upon The Frozen Heavens
We will meet before tying the know. It's not like we're gonna meet as she's walking down the aisle.
I know in my heart this is the right thing to do. After last time I thought long and hard about doing this again but my heart was and is telling me this is the right woman for me and that I am meant to spend my life with her. I can say right now I love this woman with all my heart and I don't need to be able to touch her to know that. Like i said we talk/text every day. It's not what I want but we stay in contact.
This reeks of desperation.
...da fuck?
When do you plan on meeting her, anyway?
Also, are you going to her or is she going to you? I mean, sure, it's nice to think love conquers all, but man... you two literally live on opposite sides of the country. That's something that's going to be really hard to overcome unless you two have a well thought out plan about your futures.
