Does one fantasize more when they are committed?

[Pay Per Ghost]

You...you don't see what a horrible person you are for-

A) Banging other chicks while in a relationship

B) Lying to her. The whole 'deny deny' shit.

C) You think you're protecting her.


Man bang all the pussy you want, but grow up and break up with that girl.



Also, all this douchhery is keeping from reading that "How Hard I Punch My Pussy" Thread!!

Thread of the year right there!

 

[ABMorales787]

First of all, you're apart of today's generation. Now to basically sum this up since you seem to be butt hurt as usual, sex is not an emotional thing for me it's just sex.

So I'm butthurt for pointing out how ******ed your claim is? Not a fan of criticism, I see. If sex isn't an emotional thing for you then, why do you do it? It's certainly not for the hormonal satisfaction since you obviously don't feel that.

Attraction is not emotional at all it's physical, that's why it is called physical attraction

Yes. You FEEL a physical attraction. That's a FEELING you get. As in IT'S A FUCKING EMOTION. A bodily reaction that changes your train of thought. Stop being stupid and looking for an excuse to be unfaithful. You're wrong.

 

[PsychoBlack]

So I'm butthurt for pointing out how ******ed your claim is? Not a fan of criticism, I see. If sex isn't an emotional thing for you then, why do you do it? It's certainly not for the hormonal satisfaction since you obviously don't feel that.

IDK dude, when you just start calling people ******s and saying that they're pieces of shit when they haven't even done anything to you that's kind of butt hurt. I have sex for the physical satisfaction it has nothing to do with the actual person I'm with just the way that they look.

Yes. You FEEL a physical attraction. That's a FEELING you get. As in IT'S A FUCKING EMOTION. A bodily reaction that changes your train of thought. Stop being stupid and looking for an excuse to be unfaithful. You're wrong.

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You don't feel physical attractions you see them, never once have I seen a girl and said "she's cute she needs to be my girlfriend." It is quite often that I see a girl and say "she's cute I'd fuck her". You feel an emotional connection once you get to know someone. I guess I'll be wrong though, since Killjoy knows everything

 

[Skairipa Matrix]

You don't feel physical attractions you see them, never once have I seen a girl and said "she's cute she needs to be my girlfriend." It is quite often that I see a girl and say "she's cute I'd fuck her". You feel an emotional connection once you get to know someone. I guess I'll be wrong though, since Killjoy knows everything

I may see a girl who I look at and be like "I'd like to fuck her" but most times I also think "i'd like to get to know her and see if it could be something serious"

I honestly think it's weird you never see a girl and think "wow i'd like her to be my girlfriend" cause in high school alone I had like 10 girls I thought that about and still do about a couple of them.

 

[ABMorales787]

IDK dude, when you just start calling people ******s and saying that they're pieces of shit when they haven't even done anything to you that's kind of butt hurt. I have sex for the physical satisfaction it has nothing to do with the actual person I'm with just the way that they look.

Oh. So it's not physical attraction anymore? Your penis is stiff and your girl isn't around so you'll go bang whatever you find? Buy a fleshlight.

I guess I'll be wrong though, since Killjoy knows everything

Well let's see....

You don't feel physical attractions you see them

Wow. You'll say anything to try and sound right.

No, I see a woman. I feel an attraction to that woman because she looks good and I understand she's a viable female companion. Because if we did not have that feeling telling us who we should feel attracted to, we'd be doing all sorts of freaky incest shit.

, never once have I seen a girl and said "she's cute she needs to be my girlfriend."

I'm starting to think you belong in a zoo.

It is quite often that I see a girl and say "she's cute I'd fuck her".

Nevermind. You need to be in the zoo.

You feel an emotional connection once you get to know someone.

Ignoring the blatant contradiction to everything else you've said, because you can't have sex without an emotional impulse, unlike you zoo-boy I'm not gonna stick my penis into people I don't know well.

I guess I'll be wrong though, since Killjoy knows everything

It's not that I know everything. It's that it would seem you don't know shit.

 

[Skairipa Matrix]

Damn you Killjoy. You and your hilariously entertaining war with PsychoBlack is keeping me awake!

 

[PsychoBlack]

Oh. So it's not physical attraction anymore? Your penis is stiff and your girl isn't around so you'll go bang whatever you find? Buy a fleshlight.

No thanks

Well let's see....

Wow. You'll say anything to try and sound right.

No, I see a woman. I feel an attraction to that woman because she looks good and I understand she's a viable female companion. Because if we did not have that feeling telling us who we should feel attracted to, we'd be doing all sorts of freaky incest shit.

If your emotions are what tell you not to fuck your sister you have bigger problems then what I do with my life.

I'm starting to think you belong in a zoo.
Nevermind. You need to be in the zoo.

Why? Because it takes time for me to consider someone to potentially be my girlfriend instead of just jumping into relationships with people I don't know that well

Ignoring the blatant contradiction to everything else you've said, because you can't have sex without an emotional impulse, unlike you zoo-boy I'm not gonna stick my penis into people I don't know well.

I have sex without emotional impulse all the time. Also, as a 21 year old man you can't honestly tell me that you have never had sex with a girl on the first night that you met her?

It's not that I know everything. It's that it would seem you don't know shit.

It seems to me that you over complicate everything and that may be why your life sucks and you regularly get onto the forums and let other people's opinion get you butt hurt.


Hollywood Nightmare I know it seems like I'm ignoring you but, I'm not. You and PaperGhost may be the two most open minded people in this thread. JO Material seems pretty cool to

 

[jmt225]

I think some of you have been a bit harsh in this thread towards Psychoblack.

Regardless of how incredibly racist this might come across, I guarantee at least 70% of black men in America at around the age of 20 who are in a relationship are unfaithful (if not a much higher percentage).

If a young black man in America's worst crime is being unfaithful to his lady, then he's not a horrible person. Far from it. Young black kids face peer pressure that's unimaginable, and if the only thing that got though to this guy was the "sleep with as many 'hoes' as you can" mentality then I can't help but give him credit (as long as he's protecting himself and not spreading STDs and having babies). He'll most likely grow out of it.

As far as this guy's posting skills go... he's only really stuck out these past few days with the Moon Knight drama and this stuff, so I don't know if he's really shit or not. He likes Liger and Flair, so his wrestling opinions can't be that bad. As far as I'm concerned, most of the forum comes across as jackasses in the tournament, including myself, so I wouldn't hold that against anyone.

 

[Miko]

Yeah Psychoblack is a real hero jmt...

 

[Miko]

I'd understand your point of view though if he wasn't getting good advice from the Women in his life, no doubt his Grandpappy had something to say about them. I wonder if him and his Grandpa ever doubled up on one of those meaningless sockets he's no doubt had his way with.

 

[HBK-aholic]

LOL, as if race has anything to do with PsychoBlack being a dick. He's not a horrible person to you because you're not the girlfriend who's in a long-distance relationship with someone she thinks she can trust.

All people who think like you are are just complete *****. Just leave the damn girl, and sleep with what you want. You are CLEARLY not in a committed relationship, and I feel sorry for your girlfriend. You think you care about her? If you TRULY care about someone you can't do something like that, willingly, to hurt them AND be proud of it.

 

[Danger Burger]

Wait... race?? Why is race coming into this? You mean all this time Psychoblack was... Asian?

 

[Miko]

Wait... race?? Why is race coming into this? You mean all this time Psychoblack was... Asian?

Actual picture from his facebook.

 

[LSN80]

Not cheating if I don't get caught

Do murderers get the right to say the same thing?

I'm not being a dick here, I'm asking seriously.

I've seen these situations as well, but, it's no doubt the minority. Some people have a different emotional makeup and can't help the way that they feel about someone. I would never be in a relationship with a girl who thought the same way that I did about sex

.

Who thought that she should be able to get it whenever, wherever, with whoever, and keep it from you.... but you couldn't?

I wouldn't want to be with a girl like that either.

But you're young. 19, I think it says. What worries me is that you got these values from grandpa, right? That makes me wonder if growing out of this will ever happen. Which is going to make the sustainability of any romantic relationship extremely tough.

What you're doing now is fun. You said she's in college away from your Symposium post, I believe. But there's going to come a point in time when you're going to get caught, especially if she has friends that "love to snitch."

At that point, "deny, deny, deny" won't be enough. And if you truly love her, the fallout will be hell.

I mean, it was pretty good advice when you think about it. If you don't make love and just fuck you won't get attached.

Someone always gets attached, bro. Don't you wonder if on e of these young ladies you're casually banging is developing feelings for you, hoping that you'll be with them?

Even if you've been up front that it isn't going to happen. It makes the arrangement easier to justify to them, when you point and say "Well, I told you it was just about sex," but that still sucks for them.

I only read up to this point so far, so you'll have to forgive me for missing a lot.

I think that everyone here needs to stop being so close minded. Just because someone sees things different than you doesn't make them wrong.

It's not being close minded to have values and morals, or to say, "This is how you treat a woman. "

So no one here has ever had sex outside of their relationship?

I'm not sexist at all

Not my marriage, no, or during any part of our relationship. In the past, when I was your age and even older? Sure.

But it was cheating, and I deserved what I got. Which was a ring back.

The question to ask yourself, I suppose, is whether or not she would find it wrong. If no, continue on. If yes, well, that's what matters within the confines of the relationship, at least.

No matter what anyone else thinks personally.

 

[Miko]

I've heard all the double standard jive from every last one of my female cousins and older sisters for years and have came to the conclusion that people need to realize that their is a double standard and stop being so delusional about things. Look at Game of Thrones, If Catelyn would have had Jon Snow instead of Ned, She probably would have been sent back to Riverrun with her bastard child while Ned found a new wife.

Think about the time period that is supposed to reflect. Now reflect on this being 2013.

My grandpa is one of the most interesting characters on earth. I;m convinced he should have his own TV show. He once asked me who would win in a fight him or Chuck Norris. I said Chuck Norris and he then pulled out a glock 33 357 sig extended clip and asked me what Chuck Norris could do against that

Clearly he isn't as clever as he thinks if he thinks that will give him a hope in hell against Chuck Norris.

 

[Miko]

The question to ask yourself, I suppose, is whether or not she would find it wrong. If no, continue on. If yes, well, that's what matters within the confines of the relationship, at least.

No matter what anyone else thinks personally.

We'll all find out the answer to this question once I get a link to his facebook.

 

[George Steele's Barber]

I love the fact PsychoBlack believes this girl has only banged three guys and is staying faithful to him. That's so cute.

She's probably slobbin' his grandpappy's knob as he reads this.

#theresanotherthoughttokeepinyourmind

 

[The Butcher]

Psycho, I'm done being sarcastic, and I'll try not to be condescending:

What you're doing is wrong. You may not see it as such, but it is. That's non-negotiable. The first person you need to be honest with is yourself. You're not going to be able to truly love any woman or give yourself to any woman before you can be completely open and honest with her. And you're not going to be able to be completely open and honest with a woman if you can't be completely honest with yourself. So, I'm politely imploring you to simply admit that what you're doing is wrong. Cheating and lying aren't cool, they aren't fair, and they will almost always lead to trouble. I say "almost" only because some people actually do get away with being dishonest-- in life. I'm not going to push that point any further, however, because everyone has their own beliefs. Just understand, however, that actions have consequences, and in this scenario those can reach further than just hurting your girlfriend's feelings. Unintentional pregnancy, STD, violent jealous boyfriends, revenge seeking one night stands, and all sorts of other expected and unexpected events can crop up from doing what you're doing.

You're a 20 year old man. You can do whatever you want. Man to man, I'd just advise you to be safe, fair, and most importantly honest in all of your dealings. That goes for relationships, friendships, business deals, and whatever else you can think of. And a 20 year old me wouldn't listen to such advice as this, so I don't know if you will. As someone who's made more mistakes that I can count, though, trust that I know what I'm talking about.

 

[ABMorales787]

I think some of you have been a bit harsh in this thread towards Psychoblack.

Regardless of how incredibly racist this might come across, I guarantee at least 70% of black men in America at around the age of 20 who are in a relationship are unfaithful (if not a much higher percentage).

If a young black man in America's worst crime is being unfaithful to his lady, then he's not a horrible person. Far from it. Young black kids face peer pressure that's unimaginable, and if the only thing that got though to this guy was the "sleep with as many 'hoes' as you can" mentality then I can't help but give him credit (as long as he's protecting himself and not spreading STDs and having babies). He'll most likely grow out of it.

As far as this guy's posting skills go... he's only really stuck out these past few days with the Moon Knight drama and this stuff, so I don't know if he's really shit or not. He likes Liger and Flair, so his wrestling opinions can't be that bad. As far as I'm concerned, most of the forum comes across as jackasses in the tournament, including myself, so I wouldn't hold that against anyone.

Black, white, asian, martian, the dude's too stupid to know how his own body works. Nobody would be harsh on him if he simply admitted how stupidly wrong he is.

 

[BaconBits]

One thing none of us have really considered yet.... those who brag the most about fucking tons of girls are usually lying through their teeth. Most often, they're virgins who are unable to actually talk to girls/women.

I'm calling bullshit.

 

[PsychoBlack]

LSN and Dr you guys both bought up really good points and I will take them into consideration. It's something that I will try. I don't know if the change will come over night, but I'll definitely try. I'm more inclined to listen to people when they're not just telling me I'm the worst person in the world and actually trying to have a discussion instead of an argument.

GeorgeSteelesBarber, You my friend are one funny motherfucker

 

[shattered dreams]

This is the source of the drama? Young guy doesn't live near his girlfriend and has to rationalize away a hormonal reaction. I am not saying I condone it but I find it hard to believe most of you give two shits about his girlfriend. Don't think you are bulletproof though PB. This is pretty much guaranteed to end badly for you if you do indeed really care about her. Maybe now isn't your time to be together but if you care if there is a later you might should take the chance that someone would loose that pussy up. If you take the label off of it and keep doing everything else the same then I see no problem with it.

 

[Miko]

Either way, Shattered the boy was rattled enough that he claims he'll try to change, whether that was reasoning or fear that Coco or someone else will find and tell his gf (still possible) I dont know. Victory for forum morals regardless. Some of us are sensitive people who empathise with women, you know. One or two of us are women I've heard.

Although I am only bandwagoning because he has a lifestyle I am painfully jealous of.

 

[PsychoBlack]

Shattered may have just given me the best advice out of any of you. I think I may go down the take the "break" route

Miko, my life is nothing to be jealous of. I've got 5 exams to study for and a 5 page paper to write. Not to much is about to go down this weekend.

 

[Poop Master Flex]

I don't think I've fantasized any more over the last 2 years than before.

I'm sure this will sound a little toolish to some of you whippersnappers out there but in my opinion (or at least from my experience) if you love a girl you would much rather be with her than another girl. Of course from time to time if I see a hot chick I'm gonna fantasize but all in all being with just one girl is a very small price to pay if you really love that person and want to be with just that person.