I have never disliked WWE, sure I've been pissed off at it, but only because my favorite wrestler lost, not because I wanted my 2 hours back. I watch all 3 shows as soon as I can, and I only bother with TNA if I am early for Match of the Day (Football Show on around the same time as TNA in the UK).
WWE is still amazing, I don't care about ratings, I care that I watched it and I liked it. Sure, if low ratings cause the product to be raised to another level, then those who enjoy it now are the real winners in the situation.
I've never been concerned with who slept/ass kissed their way to the top, what I see on screen is what I take to be truth, I don't necessarily like/dislike who most people do, but that's why I like it, I can make my own opinions on people, I don't see Khali as a bad wrestler for example, I don't really like the Chris Jericho/Y2J feud, and I think Cryme Tyme are funny, what I love about WWE is that there is always something for me to enjoy, even if I don't like 1h30m of the show, the 30 mins I do enjoy will be worth it.
One thing that annoys me about fans is those questions raised in the initial post, especially the "Why is soso being held back" - Why the hell don't people just keep on watching and see what else transpires before slagging a show because 1 or 2 wrestlers aren't where they want them to be.
RAW is actually my least favorite show of the 3, SD! is my favorite and ECW second, for the amount of entertainment in 1 hour of ECW I dont get double from RAW (Double Time should Equal Double Entertainment), mainly because I don't have any sort of support for the RAW wreslters - Except maybe Santino and CM Punk. I like ECW because Miz/Morrison are on there, who I am in love with. And Smackdown is host to pretty much every wrestler who I would consider among my favorites (Edge, Shelton, Carlito, MVP, Jeff, Taker).
I think some people are addicted to WWE in that it has become routine for so many years, just like going out on a Friday or eating a Sunday Roast, Monday Nights has become RAW night for a lot of people, and I think people who have watched it for many years might have grounds to complain, I have only really watched since around 2001/2002 with a break in between, so I am a pretty post-attitude era fan, so I can't really comment on how I would feel if I had been a HUGE fan in those days.