If George Foreman, Lennox Lewis or Michael Schumacher did what Benoit did do you think they would be erased from their sport? They would acknowledge that he once existed and probably remove any products with their name on it and donate a his "appearance fee" from any videos/DVDs sold to charity.
Just want to pick you up on this point. Benoit isn't erased from the sport on professional wrestling, he's erased from one company (if that, I'll come onto it). It would be like the WBO or FOTA refusing to talk about those guys, which in fairness, would be something that might happen. In professional settings, it doesn't make sense to talk about murderers, especially as those guys are trying to achieve commercial success. You'd still get journalists talking about it, which is the case now, he's openly talked about in Wrestling Media.
For me, Benoit can be alluded to, but shouldn't be mentioned. For example, I don't mind them saying '23 guys have been Triple Crown champions in WWE', he isn't erased from the history, they don't annul his title wins (which in an arbitrary sport is something I assume they could have done) but they also don't expressly mention him when they are talking about Triple H's record at Wrestlemania or guys who Daniel Bryan reminds them of in style.
I've seen Benoit documentaries on my TV listings, so it's not like WWE are being aggressive in attempting to remove him from all forms of media, which they also could do.
If WWE were for example telling any media outlet who covers him will not get interviews or communication from them, then maybe people could say they are taking it too far.
Is this 'really' any different to WWE saying that Randy Savage won the WWE Championship instead of the WWF one? Why should the courts be allowed to force WWE to change what is remembered about history, but WWE themselves aren't allowed to make similar value judgements.
I haven't watched a Benoit match since he died, I've only seen two Eddie Guerrero matches since he died, none of Macho Mans. I have stacks of videos and DVDs as well as the whole of the internet to view their matches and in the case of the latter two, there's hardly anyone I loved more as performers, but I still get upset whenever I watch Eddie pinning Lesnar for the title or watch him lose several pints of blood against JBL. It's very hard for me to relive their matches, it's even harder with Benoit, and for an additional reason...
Frankly, I don't want to own a DVD with Benoit on it, and if I had one, I wouldn't watch the match. It's hard to get lost in his matches knowing what those hands did to his family members, regardless of the morality of it being down to drugs, his storytelling is undercut by those events.
I think people forget this is the Digital Age, you can't erase stuff from history, it's on the internet, Benoit will never descend into heresay, we all know he existed. I just don't think we should want his legacy perpetuated by WWE.
I would be more opposed if WWE had a dictatorship on their media, but in a world of piracy and copyright infringement, we're free to watch whatever version of Wrestlemania XX we want. WWE releases it without that match, fine - If you want a version with it, it's not that hard.
WWE retroactively doesn't mention/release lots of things - Bob Holly calling Michael Cole a Shithead at WM17, but as long as it's 'out there', I'm happy to let WWE make their own decisions.