By now, most of you have at least heard about Minnesota Vikings star, Adrian Peterson, being indicted on a felony count of reckless or negligent injury to a child. Peterson whipped his four year old son (I really am not sure what he used to whip him with if someone can help me out here) and left bruises and wounds on him. Peterson admits he went over the line, but claims he would never intend on injuring his child, and that this form of punishment is just a part of the way he was brought up.
My parents did in fact spank my sister and I when we were children and I'm sure many of you received several swats yourselves. Never once have I felt endangered or seriously threatened by them. When I received a swat to the ass, I had done something that was stupid or intolerable. A swift spank on the ass was my worst nightmare and the prospect of one was usually enough to prevent me from committing an act that my parents didn't want me to commit. Again, my parents believed in merely spanking my sister and I, the furthest it ever went was a lick or two from a leather belt. I was never physically harmed by these whippings or traumatized.
Where do we all stand on child punishment? Is it okay to spank or whip a child?
I believe it is okay to spank a child. It's an undesirable punishment for a child and if done effectively, as exemplified by my mother and father, will not actually harm the kid; just scare them out of wanting to do said action again. I believe this method is more productive than many methods used by 'anti-spanking' parents. Not to say that every 'anti-spanking' parent is incapable of punishing their children effectively.
If you are against spanking, what methods do you believe are more effective/appropriate.
My parents did in fact spank my sister and I when we were children and I'm sure many of you received several swats yourselves. Never once have I felt endangered or seriously threatened by them. When I received a swat to the ass, I had done something that was stupid or intolerable. A swift spank on the ass was my worst nightmare and the prospect of one was usually enough to prevent me from committing an act that my parents didn't want me to commit. Again, my parents believed in merely spanking my sister and I, the furthest it ever went was a lick or two from a leather belt. I was never physically harmed by these whippings or traumatized.
Where do we all stand on child punishment? Is it okay to spank or whip a child?
I believe it is okay to spank a child. It's an undesirable punishment for a child and if done effectively, as exemplified by my mother and father, will not actually harm the kid; just scare them out of wanting to do said action again. I believe this method is more productive than many methods used by 'anti-spanking' parents. Not to say that every 'anti-spanking' parent is incapable of punishing their children effectively.
If you are against spanking, what methods do you believe are more effective/appropriate.