Am I Insane????

[Sully]

Every day I wake up thinking "Hey, maybe Macca is done being an asshole", and every day you prove me wrong.

Go sign in as Bill Lesnar and start a thread in the prison.

Advice to the OP, never...EVER take any tips from Macca. You'd have better luck getting advice from Charles Manson...though there is a good chance they may be the same person.

 

[Macca]

Yeah, he's right.

Hey, why dont you start taking advice from the puppy molester Sully here. I bet everyone will agree that he knows what he's talking about.

 

[justinsayne]

Meh, if you love your fiance and want to spend the rest of you life with her, than you should marry her, I would take my time in setting up the wedding however, as for your parents they'll prolly come around eventually, and as far as "fucking up your life" first off I don't think you are, but if you were to fuck up your life wouldn't you rather do it when you were young, and have the rest of it to fix whatever mistakes you may be making?, again "I" don't think you're making a mistake, how parents could think that doing the right thing and taking responsibility for the situation you are in is a mistake I will never understand, and it's not just yours I've seen the same mentality in my GF's step parents, as well as in my Grandmother in a similar situation in our lives

EDIT: Sully wtf are you doing online at 2am (my time) on a school night!?!?, get your ass the bed!!!

 

[Sully]

EDIT: Sully wtf are you doing online at 2am (my time) on a school night!?!?, get your ass the bed!!!

I know I should be asleep. It's 4am here. I'm watching the movie "Porky's" I think it's almost over, but I've been laughing my ass of the past half hour. I'm fucked though, I'l probably get 2 and a half hours of sleep. I have to get up at 6:50.

 

[TheOneBigWill]

There's this guy on here called Justinsayne who keeps letting his pregnant girlfriend get Falcon Kick'd by some random housemate who keeps bursting through the door like the Kool Aid Man while Justinsayne hides in the toilet and plays Pokemon Yellow on his Game Boy Color.

This made me just bust out laughing. Probably because an image came into my head of the Kool-Aid guy doing it.

Yeah, still though, you don't actually have a clue what you're going on about, do you?

 

[Hollywood Naitch]

I'm sorry if this the wrong place for this:

Now if you look at my signature, it will say I am a father of a handsome 5 month old son and soon to be husband. Mind you I'm 19, I lost alot of my childhood thanks to Lil AJ, but I am not bitter about it. I love my life, my fiancee and my son, but my folks aren't happy with my decision of marrying at 19. It has driven a rift between my folks and I, and I am getting hate for them.

Am I in the wrong here?????
Should I hold off on the wedding????
Are my parents overreacting????
Should I be upset with my parents???

Please be brutality honest here

I am 24 and have been with my gf for 4 years, but I dont feel ready for marriage and all that commitment yet...

However, everbody is different, I know a few people who got married at 19/20and are still with that woman and are really happy.

If you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her, then go for it. It's your life man, don't do what people want you to do just because they did it that way. Listen to your head and your heart, as cheesy as that sounds!

You have a kid with this woman, you obviously love her, but you just need to think is marriage neccesary right now. It won't change anything, and you can still live with her and your son whether you are married or not. You just need to decide whether you believe you will be with her forever, and if the answer is yes, then why not marry? It's not what I would do, but if you are ready at 19, then by all means go ahead.

Good luck dude, I know you will make the right choice for you

 

[TheOneBigWill]

I don't believe you can ask someone else if you should/shouldn't get married at *insert age here* because "someone else" isn't "you". Everyone else is different, so what happens in their life isn't guaranteed to happen exactly the same in yours.

Do what YOU want to do, follow what direction you feel you should. Mistakes happen, you learn from them. That's about the only true advice I feel anyone can give you.

 

[Mr. Artistic guy]

Del Rio, not exactly tbexpeteced but makes perfectect sensem couclnt think of a better sub.

Sorry guys, I was very very very drunk, and when I'm drunk I type stupid stupid things.

 

[Macca]

I read one of your other drunk ones and thought "This Liverpool bloke is off his face and still manages to put together a more constructive sentence then Sully. Impressive..."

 

[Hyorinmaru]

First off Macca I'm pretty sure it's been established that's she's Justin's roommate not his girlfriend (although I could be wrong).

Second crawl up your own ass and die.

 

[justinsayne]

I think everyone should just ignore Macca, the guy is clearly desperate for attention, especially if he's still try to stir up shit that has happened in my personal life months ago and has all been resolved since, and has about 99% of the details wrong, tbh Im just tired of this fuckhead and usually just skip over his posts, not my fault he failed when attempting to rape his hamster, and is jealous that I can get an actual living woman to have sex with me, while he's still getting turned down by the blow up sheep he found in the dumpster behind the sex shop

 

[Sully]

I put him on my ignore list once, but it was pointless as I ended up viewing the post anyways. I shouldn't give you the option to view it, because curiosity just takes over.

The ignore list should make it so you don't even see any trace of Macca existing on the forums. Not on thread viewing, don't show quoted responses, don't show anything.


Also, you know how I mentioned I was up at 4am? Well I went to sleep round 4:30, woke up at 6:50 like said. Now I'm going to lay down, and fall into a deep trance. Shame I'll probably miss Raw though. I swear, if they have Trips return, and I miss it....

 

[secret titan]

I don't believe you can ask someone else if you should/shouldn't get married at *insert age here* because "someone else" isn't "you". Everyone else is different, so what happens in their life isn't guaranteed to happen exactly the same in yours.

Do what YOU want to do, follow what direction you feel you should. Mistakes happen, you learn from them. That's about the only true advice I feel anyone can give you.

This x10.

I got married when I was 19 and am still with her. Only you can decide for yourself what to do.

 

[Stormtrooper]

Spoiler

You're of legal age to do as you wish. You have a child, and whether or not it was planned or not - you still have it now. Any attempt by your Parents to try and get you to reconsider a marriage is just an attempt on their part to get you to understand you do NOT have to get married just because you have a child with someone.

The main goal they likely have is to make sure you aren't rushing into marriage at such a young age, solely because you have a child with someone. So, that would be the question.. are you only wanting to get married because it's to the Woman who birthed your Son? Are you only wanting to get married because you want to complete the Family connection through a legal piece of paper?

If so, don't do it.

Getting married is something that needs to be well thought out and understood. Not rushed into because you feel you did something life-changing and the only way to continue making right by it, is to do something else life-changing.

Spoiler

I don't believe you can ask someone else if you should/shouldn't get married at *insert age here* because "someone else" isn't "you". Everyone else is different, so what happens in their life isn't guaranteed to happen exactly the same in yours.

Do what YOU want to do, follow what direction you feel you should. Mistakes happen, you learn from them. That's about the only true advice I feel anyone can give you.

Will dropped some sage-like wisdom in this thread. Listen to him. Natural also with some good points. And don't listen to Macca here, it's not good for you.

Marry the girl if you love her enough to warrant such an event, not because she birthed your child. Also, marry her if you feel you are mature enough to handle such a situation, and financially secure enough to afford it. Remember, divorce can be expensive as fucking hell (obviously I hope this never happens, but if it does, not good). The only person who knows all these answers is YOU, so you need to reflect and make the decision on your own.

Here's one important question that you didn't ask. Are your parents not happy you're getting married at a young age? Or are they not happy you're marrying this specific (young?) lady (age notwithstanding)? If it's the latter, they might not like it because see something bad in her that you can't see, due to the whole being in love with her thing.

I wish you the best of luck in whatever decisions you make.