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She wants a bit of Chilli in the Chilli weather huh?
That sounds epic mate. So do you still feel the same about her as you did? If so this should be a good day for you.I hope everything pans out the way you want it to.
On another note, how many years in acceptable in a relationship? Let me explain. Last night, after work, a girl who is temporary in my work asked me to go to a party with her. It was a house party and I was going to go but she is only 17. I am 19. Is that in the acceptable bracket?
That sounds epic mate. So do you still feel the same about her as you did? If so this should be a good day for you.I hope everything pans out the way you want it to.
On another note, how many years in acceptable in a relationship? Let me explain. Last night, after work, a girl who is temporary in my work asked me to go to a party with her. It was a house party and I was going to go but she is only 17. I am 19. Is that in the acceptable bracket?
I don't know man. It is weird. Like when I don't talk to her for a while, I don't get feelings for her unless it is a lonely night. But then when I talk to her I start getting those feelings back and want to be with her. I've already said it to some of my friends, if after tonight it just ends up being friends, I'm done. Tonight is my last attempt and if it doesn't work out, I am not trying with her again.
And I initially just bought her a ring to have, because I been getting things for close friends, but that turned into me going for my last try with her. I don't know man...
That is perfectly acceptable. 17 is the age of consent over here, in most places. If you have no problems with it, go for it. Besides, in all reality it is only two years. Once you guys are both in your 20's it won't seem like a big deal at all.
Yeah but it is a big deal right now. I mean, I like her and I am pretty sure the feelings are reciprocated. I mean, who would ask someone to a party on a Wednesday night? However, it is a really strange situation. I it is really hard to judge the situation. I don't think that it is unacceptable but both her mum and her brother work with me and I fell as though it would be such an awkward situation.
Inner-work relations are tricky bro. Add her mom and brother working as well, like you said man, definitely awkward. I'm trying to think of things to make it less awkward, but I can't right now. If she tells her mom and bro, that may get even more awkward, and I'm sure you wouldn't want to sneak around...
Yeah, toughie huh?
I guess I will let it play out for now and see how it goes in the near future. However, I do hope that everything works out for you tonight. By the sounds of it, it seems as though that is what she wants and if that is the case, good luck to you. How do you think she feels?
I guess I will let it play out for now and see how it goes in the near future. However, I do hope that everything works out for you tonight. By the sounds of it, it seems as though that is what she wants and if that is the case, good luck to you. How do you think she feels?
Honestly I don't know how she feels. It could just be an innocent little hang out, maybe she feels bad for bailing on me in the past. I don't know man.
Hmm tough cookie. I mean the age difference between my Mum and my Stepdad is 12 years, but it's all fine there. I think 2 years isn't so bad, but it's just the 17 issue you have to tread carefully around, I say go and have fun and enjoy yourself, but don't go diving in too quickly, best wait til she's not temping so you're not in any problems incase it goes sour.
Think the biggest age gap for me was 1 1/2 years, but I was 20 when I was dating her.
And yet you voted for TM over me.
TM, of all people.
Hi guys!
TM, of all people.
Hi guys!
Given my past issues with my ex and she's still in my life, just play it cool as you can. I can't remember who ended it but I would think with going over, you're on her turf, so it's in her court. Just play it cool and see how you go, I've experienced making mistakes and Dave knows my relationship with my ex is like a hot and cold potato.
I'll see how it goes. If I get the vibe she just wants to be friends then no. I'll just give her her gift, tell her how I feel, and be done with it.
Yeah, I wouldn't care less if she was two years older than me but it's that she is only 17 that the problem occurs. I don't think it is a big deal because she seems to be quite a grown up person but I am just very wary. It's the family issue that is the problem I think. I have only ever been with women who are my age so it is very difficult to say how people will react.
That is fucking hilarious, and should be one of your calling cards. Holy shit that is good.
Dave, I'm at 576 posts in here. I should have a high ranking position within the Thunder-Blog.
I will be president naturally.
Chilli Dave will be Vice President.
Phoenix and D-Man can be secretary of offence and defence respectively since they work best when they are arguing different point and opposing each other.
Doc will be secretary of culture, arts and all that.
Blade will be foreign affairs minister
Chilli Dave will be Vice President.
Phoenix and D-Man can be secretary of offence and defence respectively since they work best when they are arguing different point and opposing each other.
Doc will be secretary of culture, arts and all that.
Blade will be foreign affairs minister
D-Man just blew a load at work at the thought of teaming with Phoenix.