Thats why mine has more to it.

I'm the leader.

Besides unless she's telling all of them the exact same thing on MSN, that she tells me on a daily basis, then I'm comfortable enough to know who she truly loves.
Albeit I admit, it gets to me at times. (makes it seem less special at times)
Those who know RVDgurl know how she looks. I don't think its a matter of Becca not wanting to be respected for who she is, or her "talents" so much as just loving that she's finally being accepted for being beautiful.
If for the pure unknown reason that noone's ever told her this before now, it really astounds me. She truly is everything beauty could ever contain, & so much more. But to each their own, I suppose. At any rate.. I'm sure Becca wants to be respected for who she is as well.. but like I said, being told you're beautiful by everyone who views your pictures.. its something you come to love hearing, I'm sure.