So, I'm going on a date..?

[The Brain]

I'm taking a girl to the cinema on Friday to see FRED.

It's bad enough that I really wanna go out with her, but it's even worse that I have to pay for 2 Fred tickets, nevermind 1.

She's hot..we get along well together, I've known her for a while and I want to go out with her..but FRED? really?

Get used to it.

Sigged, but I'm not 100% sure it's a date anymore. We're still going to the Cinema, but she wants to meet up with this other guy after; baring in mind it was 'okay with me'.

fuck I hate my life.

Bogus. If you say it's not ok with you, you come off as a dick. If you say it is ok with you, you're just the curtain jerker while he's the main event. At the end of the night the curtain won't be the only thing you're jerking.

 

[Phoenix]

Best thing is to be yourself, if you can make her enjoy your company to a point that she either changes her mind to stick around with you or misses your company when leaving then you got the points there and that can lead to success.

One time I went with a cinema with a girl and another guy (was a work based thing), the other guy tried pulling out all the dosh and everything else on her, yet she had a better time with me as company because we just had a laugh and we're still good friends to this day, learn from this!

Cinema for a date is pretty bad.

First date yes, but when with the girl for some time it's a lot better Good times!

 

[Lee]

If shes seeing some guy afterwards tell her to fuck off

 

[Cena's Little Helper]

She's seeing someone afterward? Yeah, tell her to fuck off. Oh, I'll give you one piece of advice: it's now expected of you to kiss a girl on the first date. I was always told that gentleman don't kiss on the first date, but this is obviously outdated dating etiquette.

 

[BooCocky]

I'd ask Tdigs for advice then not take it. But that's just the type of person I am. I'd also tell her to fuck off. But this is coming from a guy whose life is getting worse and I should have listened to my own advice weeks ago. Now I got people talking about shit they know nothing about. So yeah, don't take my advice...

 

[LitasRevenge79]

She's seeing someone afterward? Yeah, tell her to fuck off. Oh, I'll give you one piece of advice: it's now expected of you to kiss a girl on the first date. I was always told that gentleman don't kiss on the first date, but this is obviously outdated dating etiquette.

Being a chick, if she's already double booked, then make her pay her own way in. The fact she never checked with you in the first place about WHAT movie to see, already speaks to the fact this is more about hanging out with you to kill her time. That's already what I used to do when I was just casually hanging out with a guy and using him. As for kissing on the first date, it depends on the both of you. tdigs is right, it is an antiquated rule anymore. Lots of people will hop into bed within 5 minutes of knowing each other. It is true that a real gentleman will not go for a kiss, if you must kiss, you can give her a peck on the cheek, and that can be acceptable, otherwise, a very noble move is to kiss her hand, reminiscent of the medieval times when knights and dames would court.

 

[Hyorinmaru]

Where can I meet one of those people?

 

[LitasRevenge79]

Where can I meet one of those people?

'those people'? please elaborate mil....

 

[Freddy4190]

.. Where's my royalty check?

 

[Goliath Uterus]

Ok, first thing, do not follow this advice in any way shape or form...

Just go, and try to enjoy yourself. Nothing's ever irredeemable. I'm sure there will be something about the movie or at least the experience you'll enjoy, and anyway you're going for the sake of the girl. Go with the flow, man, get the girl.

Second off, tell her to fuck off. It's obvious she isn't looking at you as someone she wants to get with, go find some other girl, and next time, you pick the movie out.

 

[LSN80]

Sigged, but I'm not 100% sure it's a date anymore. We're still going to the Cinema, but she wants to meet up with this other guy after; baring in mind it was 'okay with me'.

fuck I hate my life.

What the heck? Its ok with you? Dude, no offense, but you really have no spine. Youre going to see a movie you dont want to see, just for another guy to likely get the ass you were after? Forget the first date kiss my friend, you'll get a nice handshake at the end!

 

[LSN80]

Get used to it.



Bogus. If you say it's not ok with you, you come off as a dick. If you say it is ok with you, you're just the curtain jerker while he's the main event. At the end of the night the curtain won't be the only thing you're jerking.

Not how I would have worded it, but at the same time, I couldnt have said it better.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

I must admit that I am squarely against going to the cinema to see a film that I have no interest in seeing regardless of the company or potential rewards.

In fact, I would much rather watch a film that I want to see by myself because I find most movie-goers to be insufferable, particularly women as they tend to start asking questions during the film. Plenty of viewing experiences have been ruined by "Who is he?" "What did he say?" "Why did she do that?" etc.

JUST SHUT UP AND WATCH THE DAMN FILM!

This man speaks gospel. You are already off on the wrong foot, now this person is going to think its ok to have you going to movies you dont want to see.

 

[Coco]

Being a chick, if she's already double booked, then make her pay her own way in. The fact she never checked with you in the first place about WHAT movie to see, already speaks to the fact this is more about hanging out with you to kill her time. That's already what I used to do when I was just casually hanging out with a guy and using him. As for kissing on the first date, it depends on the both of you. tdigs is right, it is an antiquated rule anymore. Lots of people will hop into bed within 5 minutes of knowing each other. It is true that a real gentleman will not go for a kiss, if you must kiss, you can give her a peck on the cheek, and that can be acceptable, otherwise, a very noble move is to kiss her hand, reminiscent of the medieval times when knights and dames would court.

I'm weird enough. Designating her hand as the first part of her body my lips make contact with isn't going to do me any favors. But if you do go with the hand, you'll want to avoid the palm. Otherwise, you're doing it wrong.

 

[The Raven's Epitaph]

I wish I would have told her to fuck off now. She blagged that she was ill, only to forget that I was friends with her on Facebook and her status was..

"had a great day today, love u 4ever tom" which was the guy she was supposed to be meeting at the same time as me. She's known him a week over the internet, went to meet him and started dating him. Looks like I chose the right person there, huh? No.

I could do without younger girls being ****ty.

 

[Coco]

That's unfair to younger girls. If anything, they're naive.

 

[The Raven's Epitaph]

That's unfair to younger girls. If anything, they're naive.

She gave me a bullshit story about how she was ill so she couldn't come and meet me, only to jump on the dick of another guy. I spoke to her on MSN afterwards and she gave me another bullshit story about being hurt by the guy before the guy she's dating now.

When I said "Yeah, but that wasn't me and you're giving me shit for it." she threw me some more shit about having to go into hospital soon because she has low iron levels.

Seriously, if there's anybody that was carrying to much baggage, I went and fucking found her. Screw her, I could do without her.

 

[Coco]

I think you're being rather harsh because she's not interested in you and is trying to let you down gently. And really, if I made women physically ill, I'd be feeling pretty down in the dumps as well.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

LULZ kiss her hand. Or uh, y'know, fuck. Same difference. Its all semantics and meaningless ideals that only stave off the inevitable, one way or the other