This is something I brought up after Paul Walker died.
People defended the dude having a relationship with an underage girl saying "Well they stayed together even after she turned 18 so he must have really loved her and he wasn't just a guy looking for underage girls."
I believe that there was a defense made by some people about her parents must have allowed it so it was okay.
My post here at the time wasn't so much just about underage sex as it was forgiving celebrities for things they have done that we would look down on them for while they were alive after they have died.
So I want to know why is it that people say this is such a horrible thing yet people will make an excuse for someone after they have died?
As if suddenly they were no longer wrong for what they did.
I understand the concept of not wanting to criticize the dead and all that but at the same time we shouldn't make excuses for pedophiles after they die.
If you're a pedophile you're a pedophile into your grave and if you think it's wrong when the person is alive then don't make an excuse for them in death.
A friend of mine posted an article about Rowan Blanchard, the actress who plays the lead role on Girl Meets World, talking about her sexuality and the girl is 14 years old. She's in between the ages of some of my nieces and nephews so I'm like "a 14 year old shouldn't be talking about their sexuality" and my friend said something about her being more mature than a lot of 14 year old girls though. To me it's still weird because to me she's a little girl.
In my state you do have situations where say a 16 and 17 year old in high school are dating and they may already have a sexual relationship, if the 17 year old turns 18 and the 16 year old hasn't turned 17 yet and they continue a sexual relationship then the 18 year old can now legally be arrested for that. I was nearly in that situation in high school where I was going to turn 18 that December and she was going to turn 17 in April of the following year, so 4 months, but we broke up in October and didn't have to worry about it luckily.
Had we not broken up though and had her parents caught us then they totally would have had me arrested.
People defended the dude having a relationship with an underage girl saying "Well they stayed together even after she turned 18 so he must have really loved her and he wasn't just a guy looking for underage girls."
I believe that there was a defense made by some people about her parents must have allowed it so it was okay.
My post here at the time wasn't so much just about underage sex as it was forgiving celebrities for things they have done that we would look down on them for while they were alive after they have died.
So I want to know why is it that people say this is such a horrible thing yet people will make an excuse for someone after they have died?
As if suddenly they were no longer wrong for what they did.
I understand the concept of not wanting to criticize the dead and all that but at the same time we shouldn't make excuses for pedophiles after they die.
If you're a pedophile you're a pedophile into your grave and if you think it's wrong when the person is alive then don't make an excuse for them in death.
A friend of mine posted an article about Rowan Blanchard, the actress who plays the lead role on Girl Meets World, talking about her sexuality and the girl is 14 years old. She's in between the ages of some of my nieces and nephews so I'm like "a 14 year old shouldn't be talking about their sexuality" and my friend said something about her being more mature than a lot of 14 year old girls though. To me it's still weird because to me she's a little girl.
In my state you do have situations where say a 16 and 17 year old in high school are dating and they may already have a sexual relationship, if the 17 year old turns 18 and the 16 year old hasn't turned 17 yet and they continue a sexual relationship then the 18 year old can now legally be arrested for that. I was nearly in that situation in high school where I was going to turn 18 that December and she was going to turn 17 in April of the following year, so 4 months, but we broke up in October and didn't have to worry about it luckily.
Had we not broken up though and had her parents caught us then they totally would have had me arrested.