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[Mighty NorCal]

The point Will, accept imperfection and rejection. Once you do, things will be so much better.

or, do like I do. If they wont accept you becuase their criteria is based upon things other than you being a good person, then fuck them, you dont need thier acceptance, becuase they have ignorant, superficial priorities.

 

[HBK-aholic]

sorry. U can have big white whatevers every day if u want lol. It shouldnt be about the spectacle of the wedding, it should be about loving someone, and spending the rest of your life with them. another reason why marriage is dumb.

Marriage is just like xmas. Its fucking stupid.

Just pointless traditions that guilt you into spending an assload of money over nothing. Xmas, being what most people trun CHRISTmas into.

Ya I know you can be together with someone without being married, and you don't need a wedding to prove you love the,. I've just always wanted that big traditional ceremony as well lol.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

Ya I know you can be together with someone without being married, and you don't need a wedding to prove you love the,. I've just always wanted that big traditional ceremony as well lol.

meh.

IF I ever do get married, it will be on a crazy badass tropical island somewere, with just me, my wife, and a preacher. Cuz thats what its about, and who it is for. ME and HER. NOT my family, NOT hers, and NOT spending an assload of money over nothing. Fuck that. Me, and her, and our love. Thats what itll be about.

 

[Grubbs0621]

Marriage is just like xmas. Its fucking stupid

I don't now if I can agree saying marriage is stupid. For example, I've had numerous girlfriends, lived with a couple girls, had a fiance. Now, when I finally the girl for me, what is going to set her aside from the past women I've been with? Whats going to say, you're the one and I feel for you like I've never felt for anyone before?

At certain times, I felt that way about some girls in my past. So it can't just be a simple answer like putting faith into your heart. A good answer is marriage, that you are taking the committment to spend your life with them. It is what separates that person from the other people you've been with. I think marriage does have a point.


Now, I am not saying you have to be married for the relationship to go to the next step or to be a successful couple. I know several people who have never gotten married and lived together for years. Just saying, I believe there is a poiny in marriage.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

I don't now if I can agree saying marriage is stupid. For example, I've had numerous girlfriends, lived with a couple girls, had a fiance. Now, when I finally the girl for me, what is going to set her aside from the past women I've been with? Whats going to say, you're the one and I feel for you like I've never felt for anyone before?

At certain times, I felt that way about some girls in my past. So it can't just be a simple answer like putting faith into your heart. A good answer is marriage, that you are taking the committment to spend your life with them. It is what separates that person from the other people you've been with. I think marriage does have a point.


Now, I am not saying you have to be married for the relationship to go to the next step or to be a successful couple. I know several people who have never gotten married and lived together for years. Just saying, I believe there is a poiny in marriage.

eh. YOU know you feel different. and so should she. you shouldnt need THAT to "seperate" her from everyone else. Thats something superficial for everyone else to see. the way you FEEL in your heart and sould is what seperates her, and thats all you should need, not some ceremony and a peice of jewelry.

 

[Grubbs0621]

eh. YOU know you feel different. and so should she. you shouldnt need THAT to "seperate" her from everyone else. Thats something superficial for everyone else to see. the way you FEEL in your heart and sould is what seperates her, and thats all you should need, not some ceremony and a peice of jewelry.

At one time though I know I've felt different about girls in my past then I ever had before. My ex fiance, I had feeling for I can't even begin to describe.

If I am lucky enough to find a girl who makes me feel that way again, what will set her separate from her? The fact that I am with one of them now and one of them in the past? I felt the same for them. I am not saying the ceremony, or the ring separates them, but rather taing the committment to the next step with them would separate them.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

If I am lucky enough to find a girl who makes me feel that way again, what will set her separate from her? The fact that I am with one of them now and one of them in the past?

yep. Basically. the fact that you are WITH them and not anyone else, should be reason enough. and isnt it more meaningful if your around by choice, and not BOUND to them by marriage??? Becuase if you truly value marriage that much, then divorce doesnt exist, and you are obligated. If you arent married, the door is open, and yet you CHOOSE to be with THAT girl EVERYDAY. That should be enough.

 

[Grubbs0621]

By choosing to be with that girl everyday, you leave this slither of space in there that says, but just in case, if things don't work out, I can drop you in an instant.

it is not "bound by marriage" it is "choosing to be bound by marriage". There is a difference. You are saying, I know, without a doubt, there is no one else I want to be with, and I am choosing to spend my entire life with you. (Note I don't believe in divorce)

Meh, just difference of opinions.

 

[Mighty NorCal]

By choosing to be with that girl everyday, you leave this slither of space in there that says, but just in case, if things don't work out, I can drop you in an instant.

it is not "bound by marriage" it is "choosing to be bound by marriage". There is a difference. You are saying, I know, without a doubt, there is no one else I want to be with, and I am choosing to spend my entire life with you. (Note I don't believe in divorce)

Meh, just difference of opinions.

I get it, really I do. and ill prolly do it someday, only becuase of my religous beliefs. And its more that I dont agree with the spectacle of the marriage ceremony itself. It makes it too much about the money spent, and the sociality of it, and not about two people in love. its all very overrated. Its like church. I am an extremely deeply strongly religous person, but I dont go to church, becuase the vast majority of churches are extremely commercialized, and more about the spectacle and the fact that you are "AT CHURCH YAAAAY". but very few of these people would piss on you if you were on fire. I just dont like things that are made to be a commercialized superficial spectacle, and takes away attention from what really truly matters. The stereo type huge ceremony white dress that is a mile long stuff is crap.

That and im imbittered from all the terrible terrible terrible stories ive heard. You dont have a lot of high character people around these days. a lot of people will date for 3 months get married, cheat on each other, and then divorce, and she gets to take half his shit. at least. If he is lucky. It may have worked well in a certain day and age, but not as much now. Im saying its a safer bet to just be together, than to get married, becuase it takes a person with an extremely high amount of character to carry off marriage anymore, and people of that sort arent easily found in this world.

 

[Total Impact]

Don't do what I did and propose to get you out of trouble.

I did that before. I remember it almost word for word:

Ex-fiancee: Who the hell was that bitch in your room?

Me: She was nobody, I love you baby

(me trying to stop her from leaving by holding on to her tight)

Me: Don't go..

Ex-fiancee:Fuck you, you bastard. If you love me you wouldn't have been fucking that bitch. She ulgy as hell anyway. I mean damn if you going to cheat, then cheat with someone who has looks, that bitch looked like and ugly ass man.

Me: I didn't fuck her...

Ex-fiancee: Don't lie to me!

Me: She just gave me head and that was it.

Ex-fiancee: You probably ate her nasty ass pussy. I hope your ass catch something.

Me: I love you and I want to be with you. That bitch wasn't shit but a mistake. I just thought me and you wasn't working out. I'm not about to throw away all these years for some bitch when I love you and want to be with you. I want to marry you...

Ex-fiancee:Say what?

Me:I love you and want to marry you.. I love you, I love, I LOVE YOU!

(I go over and kiss, she's still mad, ask me am I serious, I say yes, and say it again saying I want to marry you, but long story short, I fuck another bitch about a day later, and then three months later got caught, and she left me.)

And HD sucks!

 

[Uncle Sam]

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[Hyorinmaru]

I did that before. I remember it almost word for word:

Ex-fiancee: Who the hell was that bitch in your room?

Me: She was nobody, I love you baby

(me trying to stop her from leaving by holding on to her tight)

Me: Don't go..

Ex-fiancee:Fuck you, you bastard. If you love me you wouldn't have been fucking that bitch. She ulgy as hell anyway. I mean damn if you going to cheat, then cheat with someone who has looks, that bitch looked like and ugly ass man.

Me: I didn't fuck her...

Ex-fiancee: Don't lie to me!

Me: She just gave me head and that was it.

Ex-fiancee: You probably ate her nasty ass pussy. I hope your ass catch something.

Me: I love you and I want to be with you. That bitch wasn't shit but a mistake. I just thought me and you wasn't working out. I'm not about to throw away all these years for some bitch when I love you and want to be with you. I want to marry you...

Ex-fiancee:Say what?

Me:I love you and want to marry you.. I love you, I love, I LOVE YOU!

(I go over and kiss, she's still mad, ask me am I serious, I say yes, and say it again saying I want to marry you, but long story short, I fuck another bitch about a day later, and then three months later got caught, and she left me.)

And HD sucks!

 

[HBK-aholic]

I hate guys lol. I was with a guy I liked A LOT, we were together for about a year and then he cheated on me with my best friend. Idiot.

Then I sqw him today for the first time in about 6 months and he was acting normal with me!

 

[IrishCanadian25]

I hate guys lol. I was with a guy I liked A LOT, we were together for about a year and then he cheated on me with my best friend. Idiot.

Then I sqw him today for the first time in about 6 months and he was acting normal with me!

Guys suck. We're simple creatures, but we are the living, breathing embodiment of evil. Women are beautiful creatures and we make them do such shit for us.

We act "normal" in situations like this because we are dead inside.

 

[Papa Shango]

Speak for yourself. I'm the opposite of every guy anyone's ever met. Why? Because I ignore every once of male logic and common sense. Because we as men have twisted, distorted senses of logic and common sense.

 

[HBK-aholic]

I don't care. Gosh he's just annoyed. How fucking dare he sleep with my best friend then act like nothing happened to me?!

It's times like these you wonder what you ever saw in people lol.

 

[TheOneBigWill]

If you marry someone, nothing improves, but a LOT of bad shit can happen if u divorce...so fuck it...lol

Agreed. (the bold part) I think you can be happy in a marriage, as long as you make absolute sure its where you want to be.

You know the downside to divorce? Alimony.. I had no clue until the other day.. this can't be good.

I hate guys lol. I was with a guy I liked A LOT, we were together for about a year and then he cheated on me with my best friend. Idiot.

Then I sqw him today for the first time in about 6 months and he was acting normal with me!

Yeah, I hate that guy too.. and I don't even know him. You shouldn't put up with that guy, I'd be completely fine with you never talking to him or seeing him again.

It's times like these you wonder what you ever saw in people lol.

So.. you're wondering about him?

 

[Mighty NorCal]

Guys suck. We're simple creatures, but we are the living, breathing embodiment of evil. Women are beautiful creatures and we make them do such shit for us.

We act "normal" in situations like this because we are dead inside.

Idk bout that. Id say women are more "evil"becuase generally when a man does something like that, its just off of ignorant animalistic instincts. We just fucking selfish idiots.

Women, on the other hand, are coniving. They plan out the fucked up shit they do. That to me makes them more the embodiment of evil. Men, are animals. Women, are evil lol

 

[TheOneBigWill]

Women, on the other hand, are coniving. They plan out the fucked up shit they do. That to me makes them more the embodiment of evil. Men, are animals. Women, are evil lol

I'd have to agree with this too. Men are idiots, yes. Most males make stupid choices regarding lustful situations, or just dumb ideas.

Females on the other hand. They plan everything out. They don't make mistakes, they make detailed decisions.. I've never met a female that didn't know exactly what she was doing. Females have the ability to play innocent too. Thats just not fair.

 

[HBK-aholic]

Lmao I completely saw that coming.

So.. you're wondering about him?

Haha. Well his name is Shawn..

 

[TheOneBigWill]

Lmao I completely saw that coming.

I have no idea what you're on about.

Haha. Well his name is Shawn..

Doesn't surprise me. hahaha

 

[HBK-aholic]

I have no idea what you're on about.

Riggggght Will

Doesn't surprise me. hahaha

 

[Total Impact]

Idk bout that. Id say women are more "evil"becuase generally when a man does something like that, its just off of ignorant animalistic instincts. We just fucking selfish idiots.

Women, on the other hand, are coniving. They plan out the fucked up shit they do. That to me makes them more the embodiment of evil. Men, are animals. Women, are evil lol

Agree, when I cheated, it was because I was horny. It had nothing to do with me breaking my girl's heart, I saw this girl, she looked good at the time, I ad a hard on and I wanted to fuck. I was like an hunter and she was the prey. I wanted sex and that was it hell. Hell I only called the girl only when I was horny and my girlfriend couldn't answer her phone.

As for women, they know ahead of time what they are doing. You just can't slip and fall on a guy's dick and call it an accident. Girls know when they cheat, they want their boyfriend to find out, they do it out of emotion and not the need.

That's why I can't get how women can't realize that guys only want sex from the girl. The only reason it turns into a relationship is that after all of the time spent trying to bang you, we find a couple things the girls has that we can deal with for about a few hours without wanting to kill her.

I have told past girlfriends in the past that all I wanted at first was sex, but it was during the time of me trying to get laid, that I figured, we got a couple of things in common and lets see how this go.

If man says he wants to be with a girl for her and not sex, that man is lying.The first thing you have for a girl is an attraction of some kind that manifest itself into an sexual desire.

 

[Grubbs0621]

Agree, when I cheated, it was because I was horny. It had nothing to do with me breaking my girl's heart, I saw this girl, she looked good at the time, I ad a hard on and I wanted to fuck. I was like an hunter and she was the prey. I wanted sex and that was it hell. Hell I only called the girl only when I was horny and my girlfriend couldn't answer her phone.

Please tell me you are not attempting to try and take what you did and say it was okay. What you did was horrible man, and it is exactly why guys get such bad reputations. If you simply couldn't of waited until the next time you saw the person you loved, there was always your right hand.

As for women, they know ahead of time what they are doing. You just can't slip and fall on a guy's dick and call it an accident. Girls know when they cheat, they want their boyfriend to find out, they do it out of emotion and not the need.

You realize how little sense you make, right? Do you accidently slip and your piece just happens to land in that of a girls? Do girls not have needs? please.

That's why I can't get how women can't realize that guys only want sex from the girl. The only reason it turns into a relationship is that after all of the time spent trying to bang you, we find a couple things the girls has that we can deal with for about a few hours without wanting to kill her.

Speak for yourself. One of the greatest feelings I've ever had was waking up next to my ex fiance. Or when me and her would babysit my nephews together and take them out and do things. How about the simple way she made me feel about myself? You seriously need to reexamine a few things and get a new perspective on women. They are more than a toy.

If man says he wants to be with a girl for her and not sex, that man is lying.The first thing you have for a girl is an attraction of some kind that manifest itself into an sexual desire.

Intimacy is just part of a relationship. There are several parts that needs to be there for a successful relationship. And you are right though, the first thing is attraction. There are several different kinds of attractions though. Mental, physical, etc.

 

[TheOneBigWill]

Agree, when I cheated, it was because I was horny. It had nothing to do with me breaking my girl's heart, I saw this girl, she looked good at the time, I ad a hard on and I wanted to fuck. I was like an hunter and she was the prey. I wanted sex and that was it hell. Hell I only called the girl only when I was horny and my girlfriend couldn't answer her phone.

Are you even being serious? If you are, just leave now.. before I figure out a way to ban you for being a prick. Seriously, I can't believe I just read this small portion in you saying that you felt it was basically okay for you to screw around because you were horny.

Wes, this is the shit your "Mackin'" class produces.. are you happy?

As for women, they know ahead of time what they are doing. You just can't slip and fall on a guy's dick and call it an accident. Girls know when they cheat, they want their boyfriend to find out, they do it out of emotion and not the need.

As opposed to morons like yourself, who think its okay to fuck around as long as you don't get caught? I don't give a shit what gender you are, cheating is cheating.. and its wrong on all accounts.

That's why I can't get how women can't realize that guys only want sex from the girl. The only reason it turns into a relationship is that after all of the time spent trying to bang you, we find a couple things the girls has that we can deal with for about a few hours without wanting to kill her.

I'm seriously amazed that any Woman has ever thought of you as anything worth more than a piece of shit. Seriously.

Relationships are about finding connections to people. About loving them, and relating to them. About actually caring for that individual, and knowing that they make you happy. I know "I" for one don't go looking for relationships just so I can fuck someone. And I'd hope a lot of people would agree with me on that.

I have told past girlfriends in the past that all I wanted at first was sex, but it was during the time of me trying to get laid, that I figured, we got a couple of things in common and lets see how this go.

Maybe thats because you quit thinking with your dick for a shear second to think to yourself.. "Holy shit, she's more than just tits and ass." Seriously, how are you not still a virgin?

Where do you live? Seriously, there are a couple guys on this forum that I'm sure would love to come visit the place, because apparently if you've been laid, anything is possible there.

If man says he wants to be with a girl for her and not sex, that man is lying.The first thing you have for a girl is an attraction of some kind that manifest itself into an sexual desire.

BULLSHIT! And I can completely contest to that. How or better yet, WHY.. on earth would I fall in love with a girl that lives across a fucking ocean, if all I wanted was to randomly fuck someone?! Why don't you fill me in on why I'm apparently "lying."