Please tell me you are not attempting to try and take what you did and say it was okay. What you did was horrible man, and it is exactly why guys get such bad reputations. If you simply couldn't of waited until the next time you saw the person you loved, there was always your right hand.
I completely agree with everything you've said here. This dick is the type of guy, that gives ME a bad name. This guy is likely why Parents assume "I" would be horrible, just because of my image.
You realize how little sense you make, right? Do you accidently slip and your piece just happens to land in that of a girls? Do girls not have needs? please.
Ironically enough, I had a friend of mine get cheated on by her boyfriend. And the moron used the same excuse. About how she was naked, and he just got out of the shower and "slipped into her."

I'm not even close to lying either.. it was by far the funniest excuse I'd ever heard, and he only made himself not only look like a moron, but like a complete idiot in actually trying to make it believeable.
Speak for yourself. One of the greatest feelings I've ever had was waking up next to my ex fiance. Or when me and her would babysit my nephews together and take them out and do things. How about the simple way she made me feel about myself? You seriously need to reexamine a few things and get a new perspective on women. They are more than a toy.
I agree with you 100% of this part. The greatest moment in love you could have, is the shear ability to wake up and go to sleep holding the one you love. Waking up, with them being the first person you see is just by far the greatest feeling you could get. It beats any amount of pure lustful sex you could ever have.
Intimacy is just part of a relationship. There are several parts that needs to be there for a successful relationship. And you are right though, the first thing is attraction. There are several different kinds of attractions though. Mental, physical, etc.
Oddly enough, I NEVER looked at it like that.. but I greatly appreciate and like the way you've stated it. I also agree that there are many different forms of attraction. Be them mental or physical.
I won't lie in saying "I" have to be completely, physically, attracted to the person in order to attempt anything.. however I must say, I wasn't originally, at first, attracted to my first fiancee.. and I fell in love with her, for who she became to me, through a mental stand point. She showed me how much you could truly love a person for who they are.. not just what they look like. And I also found out from that, that when you love a person for who they are.. they'll always become beautiful through a physical stand point as well.