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If you have ghosts...
I'm so fucked up right now, that I think a bunch of internet strangers can help me, here it goes. My problem: I think I'm actually in love with 3 girls at the same time. One is my girlfriend but I can't stop thinking about these other two for YEARS now, last night I saw one of them and I think all feelings came back.

  1. One girl is with me for 3 years now.
  2. The other one lives in another department/city. I've been thinking about her for 4 years.
  3. The last one live on France, this is some serious shit, we have this thing going on for SIX FUCKING YEARS!

So what are your thoughts?

PS: I know, idiotic problem but I can't stop thinking about this shit and I don't have the balls to ask for advice for anyone I actually know.
 
Dude, I read your posts very often and I'm not sure if you are screwing with me or you are being serious... in any case you got me thinking now...
 
You're probably not in love with them if you are thinking about all three of them in that way at the same time. Then again, what is love? Who are we to say you can't love three women at once?
 
Damn I have to post love stuff, I feel weird.
What kind of thinking, like just thinking (every guy does) or is this kind of more than just thinking?

The only thing that matters is, if you can't love your gf enough to just be with her and not other women, then you are not being fair to her. If you do love her then you are just going to have to fight it off and not listen to penis's head. Hell, I'm sixteen and I don't even watch porn, I listen to my good head.
 
The Crock said:
I'd try to help you, but you tried to get me infracted over a joke, so naaaaah.
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Yeeeaaahh, about that one, you got on my nerve, I hate that kind of jokes. On the other hand, looking back now, my bad! Sorry Crock, I was stupid enough to NOT realise it was a joke. I also apologize for taking so long to say it.

You're probably not in love with them if you are thinking about all three of them in that way at the same time. Then again, what is love? Who are we to say you can't love three women at once
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Well my good JGlass, psychologically speaking it is possible to be in love with two women at the same time. I don't know if more, either way, I just can't stop thinking about these girls. Like I said before, it is for YEARS now, and I don't know what do about it.
 
It may be that you are overcompensating. You may actually be gay and you do not want to admit it, so your brain is blocking out all of your homosexual thoughts with thoughts of women. I think you may just be really gay.
 
therockiswwf said:
Damn I have to post love stuff, I feel weird.
What kind of thinking, like just thinking (every guy does) or is this kind of more than just thinking?

The only thing that matters is, if you can't love your gf enough to just be with her and not other women, then you are not being fair to her. If you do love her then you are just going to have to fight it off and not listen to penis's head. Hell, I'm sixteen and I don't even watch porn, I listen to my good head.
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Fuck I'm going to say names, if not it will be too complicated. Carolina is the one on the other city. Camila lives on France.

In some weird way, Carolina was at some point my gf, I'm 100% sure, that if more time had elapsed, I would've fell in love with her. The problem was the distance and the fact that I was too fucking immature.

With Camila we were nothing, ever. But I wanted to be with her, she didn't. Then viceversa, and then again, and then again for SIX FUCKING YEARS until she went to France where we had our "closure". However we keep talking, flirting and well basically giving us signs to each other.

I know it isn't fair with my gf. That's all that I can say.
 
You have to choose.

You can't really control love so, I would say if Carolina is permentaly long distance then forget about her.

I would probably have to choose Camilia here. You seem like you love her and you guys are on/off and just cant stay away from. But I would only do it if
1. You know its a sure thing
2. If you love her more than your current GF
 
Yeah wait, you should move to Paris to be with that chick, and take your girlfriend with you. If I've learned anything from watching French movies... and I have watched A LOT of French movies... you're not only allowed to have a mistress, it's expected of you.

Problem solved.
 
therockiswwf said:
You have to choose.

You can't really control love so, I would say if Carolina is permentaly long distance then forget about her.

I would probably have to choose Camilia here. You seem like you love her and you guys are on/off and just cant stay away from. But I would only do it if
1. You know its a sure thing
2. If you love her more than your current GF
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You're actually right, back the shit off Carolina! I mean, there's no point, distance will be a problem always.

Man, when I read the bold part, specially the italic, undelined part, I didn't/don't know what to think.

Let's see, I was off from La Paz for four days, and I didn't miss really much my gf. On the other hand, I can't stop thinking about Camila since I'm like 14. If indeed I love her, I'm sure I don't love her more than my current gf.

It's a sure thing? Not sure, I mean she comes once a year but only in five years she would comeback to Bolivia. Whoe knows what can happen during that period of time.

I just send her an inbox to her fb. I'm going to wait for her answer and read what she has to say. It was a innocent "how are you?" lol
 
HBK-aholic said:
You deserve none of them, to be honest. Break up with your girlfriend, this is completely unfair on her and it very much seems like you're only settling for her because you can't have either of the other 2.
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It's true, It's Damn true.
 
HBK-aholic said:
You deserve none of them, to be honest. Break up with your girlfriend, this is completely unfair on her and it very much seems like you're only settling for her because you can't have either of the other 2.
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Just what I feared... To some extent I have to be honest and say you are probably right. However, I'm not quiet sure about the last part, I don't feel like I'm only settling cause I can't have the other 2.

Giving some thinking, I think that I'm focusing way too much on the "what if.." part. Idk, you see Becca, I am happy with my gf, yet there are times when Camila PM's me, or I have some weird dream with her (NOT THAT KIND OF DREAM btw)that I started thinking about her. There is some weird pattern here. Every 3-4 months, she writes me or for some strange reason I start to think about her. And then it is whne t becomes a problem, the difference is taht today I told to myself "wtf is wrong with me?!"
 
Well it's late, I have classes tomorrow, actually this morning. I thank you all stranger tahn I will never meet. I really appreciated it, THANK YOU ALL, I have some thinking to do...while I'm sleeping.
 
Should be no thinking about it. Block the other two, delete their numbers and have nothing to do with them.
 
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The cage is the last place to post this shit...
 
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