Friends with Benifits

[CCS]

Yay or Nay?


I really dont know what to think about this phenomenon. I guess it's okay as long as neither person has a boyfriend/girlfriend.

 

[Lee]

it screws your friendship up.

true story.

 

[Eternal Dragon]

Trashy.

Flames Out
Dragon

 

[CCS]

Here's my issue........I just broke up with my bisexual girlfriend....We agreed that we'd still be friends, because we really do like each other just not in a dating way...........I was happy with that............Then she said she wanted to be friends with benefits....

 

[OIL]

It's going to fuck everything up.

 

[Fizzy]

If you wanna keep her as a friend don't do friends with benefits. If you don't care about having her as a friend and want sex and shit then do friends with benefits.

 

[CCS]

I honestly dont need her benefits. I want my old girlfriend back that was a virgin. There's too much drama with girls that are sexualy active.

 

[Ms. TM Canada]

Sleeping with your ex girlfriend can only end in disaster. You will inevitably end up either back together or with hurt feelings and remember very quickly why you broke up in the first place.

ETA: And since when are virgins automatically little saints who don't stir up drama?

 

[Harthan]

I wish I could get health insurance by just being friends with someone.

 

[CCS]

ETA: And since when are virgins automatically little saints who don't stir up drama?

They're not, this girl is just phenomenal. And since she has no past sexual history I dont have to have anymore mini heart attacks like the bisexual incident.

 

[Pimpin]

Firends with benefits is a bad idea. Sure the sex is great but it costs you a friendship as well. Beleve me it happened to me once.

 

[OIL]

I honestly dont need her benefits. I want my old girlfriend back that was a virgin. There's too much drama with girls that are sexualy active.

You're 17. You're going to have sex one way or another, well.. most of the time.

 

[CCS]

I prefer abstinance as of late.

 

[OIL]

It won't last.

 

[Monkey_Mania]

Congrats to CCS. For wanting to stay abstinent. It's a good decision.

 

[Mr. TM]

Me too! until Lost is over at least.

 

[HBK-aholic]

I could only sleep with someone I really loved, so I'm going to have to say no on this one.

 

[Cena's Little Helper]

There is no such thing as friends with benefits. Someone within this supposed agreement will always want more, and will think that being physical with the one they are attracted to will somehow turn things into the way they want them to be.

 

[CCS]

Abstinance has a lot of upside.

You dont have to be emotionaly attached to a girl for life.
You cant get a girl pregnant.
You cant catch a STD.
and much much more!

 

[OIL]

Abstinance has a lot of upside.

You dont have to be emotionaly attached to a girl for life.
You cant get a girl pregnant.
You cant catch a STD.
and much much more!

Some would say being emotionally attatched to a girl for life is a good thing. Well, I wouldn't mind it.

Tell her to go on the pill.

Use a condom!

 

[Murfish]

Plus, you are assuming that everyone gains a permanent personal attachment to the people they sleep with.

 

[CCS]

The main reason is that I dont to be a veteran when I'm married. I want to do everything with my future wife, not try out everything on whoever I'm currently dating.

 

[FromTheSouth]

Ok, I'm older than you, so here is some unsolicited advice.

Do it. Be a friend with benefits. She was cheating on you. The fact that it was with a chick does not make it different. Have lots of sex with her. Have lots of sex with lots of girls. You don't want to be learning on your wedding night. You want to do that right. And it's not all about technique. You build stamina. You need to be more comfortable with intimacy too. By the time you get married you want to be so comfortable with people seeing your body that you can take a shit while jacking off with the door open and your grandmother watching. Don't actually do that, just be that comfortable. The only way to do that is by having sex, and lot's of it.

This girl cheated on you. If she still wants to touch your penis, fucking let her. Don't be a pussy. I'm cheering for you kid.

 

[Eternal Dragon]

Abstinance has a lot of upside.

You dont have to be emotionaly attached to a girl for life.
You cant get a girl pregnant.
You cant catch a STD.
and much much more!

Abstinance ftw.

It's not that hard people.

Flames Out
Dragon

 

[CCS]

Ok, I'm older than you, so here is some unsolicited advice.

Do it. Be a friend with benefits. She was cheating on you. The fact that it was with a chick does not make it different. Have lots of sex with her. Have lots of sex with lots of girls. You don't want to be learning on your wedding night. You want to do that right. And it's not all about technique. You build stamina. You need to be more comfortable with intimacy too. By the time you get married you want to be so comfortable with people seeing your body that you can take a shit while jacking off with the door open and your grandmother watching. Don't actually do that, just be that comfortable. The only way to do that is by having sex, and lot's of it.

This girl cheated on you. If she still wants to touch your penis, fucking let her. Don't be a pussy. I'm cheering for you kid.

I've already accepted the offer. I figure it's a good thing if I'm ever in diar need of some tail.