Does one fantasize more when they are committed?

[PsychoBlack]

I still don't get why having sex multiple times with said girl you're committed to is so horrid you need to cheat on her. And if you just like sex why force said woman to commit to you while you go behind her back and cheat on her. Why not just sleep around with no strings attached and save her a lot of trouble or heartbreak if she were to find out.

Because I actually like her, which is somewhat of a rarity for me.

 

[Con T.]

Legitimate question; are you 16?

Because that's about the only saving grace you could have for the last post

 

[PsychoBlack]

It never ceases to depress me when I see people talking about how they just have to have more than one partner because of the physical side of sex. I see my girlfriend maybe two months out of the year and have never even entertained the idea of having something going on the side. I don't get this mentality of sleeping with as many women as you want for the pure physical gratification of it. I never have and I don't think I ever will.

You and I are two entirely different people. I commend you for your morals though because that is something that I wouldn't be able to do.

 

[PsychoBlack]

Legitimate question; are you 16?

Because that's about the only saving grace you could have for the last post

I turn 20 on monday

 

[Danger Burger]

When I'm horny I *********e, and man IT FEELS GREAT. And I get to take my pants off whenever I want.

 

[Lowdown]

It never ceases to depress me when I see people talking about how they just have to have more than one partner because of the physical side of sex. I see my girlfriend maybe two months out of the year and have never even entertained the idea of having something going on the side. I don't get this mentality of sleeping with as many women as you want for the pure physical gratification of it. I never have and I don't think I ever will.

Most guys develop this mentality over time from male relatives and peers. It's not necessarily a bad thing. For me you shouldn't lead anyone on. Lay it out there so at least for you it doesn't seem like you're hurting anyone. Didn't always work out that way for me though.

 

[Con T.]

Ok;

How much do you actually care about her? Seriously.

 

[FlexAmerican Dynamite]

Because I actually like her, which is somewhat of a rarity for me.

That still doesn't explain why you can't have sex with her and only her.

 

[PsychoBlack]

Ok;

How much do you actually care about her? Seriously.

I wouldn't say I'm in love, but, at the same time it's more than just a strong like

 

[PsychoBlack]

That still doesn't explain why you can't have sex with her and only her.

This is a two part answer I got for you. I'm in College two states away from her. I drive home quite a bit, but, I'm still here more often than I am there

Second, I don't want her to think that I'm just using her for sex

 

[Con T.]

Then, perhaps I've been going about this the wrong way; consider it this way.

Are you prepared for the consequences if/when she finds out? Because il eventually, it may just come out, and if you're in college/school, word is going to spread. Fast. And when it does, shit will hit the fan. And when it does, there's going to be a backlash, far worse than what you see here.

Are you prepared to face that, from this person?

 

[PsychoBlack]

Then, perhaps I've been going about this the wrong way; consider it this way.

Are you prepared for the consequences if/when she finds out? Because il eventually, it may just come out, and if you're in college/school, word is going to spread. Fast. And when it does, shit will hit the fan. And when it does, there's going to be a backlash, far worse than what you see here.

Are you prepared to face that, from this person?

She only knows one person I go to school with, and thats only because he wanted to go to Florida so he rode home with me one weekend. He won't rat me out though I've gotten him boat loads of MSU pussy and gotten him ridiculously high on multiple occasions.

She has cursed me out before though for tweeting and texting while we were chilling once. Needless to say if she found out it would go something like this "YOU ARE SOO FUCKING STUPID. I CAN'T STAND YOUR STUPID ASS BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH." Anytime we have argued in the past though it usually gets resolved in the same day

 

[Con T.]

Ok;

In the age of social media, with girls who won't know you have a girl already, with your girlfriend eventually making more visits (and you doing the same), as she meets more people... If you really think it won't come out at some point, and want to try and hide it, than more power to you.

Just be prepared for shit to eventually hit the fan. Quick

 

[PsychoBlack]

Ok;

In the age of social media, with girls who won't know you have a girl already, with your girlfriend eventually making more visits (and you doing the same), as she meets more people... If you really think it won't come out at some point, and want to try and hide it, than more power to you.

Just be prepared for shit to eventually hit the fan. Quick

When it all comes down to it I'll deny deny deny until I can't deny any more. And when she declares War then I'll just have to let her know what's up and whatever she got in store for me is just what I'm going to get

 

[smizzy]

I won't go into details because I don't wanna offend anybody over the touchy subjects.

Do you believe in God? What are your political views? Stance on a gay rights, gun control?

Nahh, but forreal, no one on WZ is sensitive about this stuff!
lawl

 

[FlexAmerican Dynamite]

This is a two part answer I got for you. I'm in College two states away from her. I drive home quite a bit, but, I'm still here more often than I am there

Second, I don't want her to think that I'm just using her for sex

Then the morally right thing to do would be breaking up with her and sleep around or stop cheating and control your urges so you may use them on her.

Sure it's probably harder than I made it sound but you must realize regardless of the reason you're a terrible companion and or person.

 

[Skairipa Matrix]

Do you believe in God? What are your political views? Stance on a gay rights, gun control?

Nahh, but forreal, no one on WZ is sensitive about this stuff!
lawl

Haha if you seriously want answers on these I wouldn't care.

Never know if anybody is gonna just get super pissed over something stupid. It happens.

 

[Coco]

Because your making me out to be this horrible person for simply having sex

No. That's not even remotely true.

I'm in College two states away from her. I drive home quite a bit, but, I'm still here more often than I am there

That's no excuse for dishonesty like this.

Second, I don't want her to think that I'm just using her for sex

Ho. Lee. Shit.

When it all comes down to it I'll deny deny deny until I can't deny any more. And when she declares War then I'll just have to let her know what's up and whatever she got in store for me is just what I'm going to get

So you don't REALLY care about her then.

 

[Skairipa Matrix]

Why be in a relationship with someone if your just gonna cheat on them?

 

[#tamale]

No, I don't really fantasize. I love my fiance. I'm sure I'm not the only guy who looks for this, but we have that physical attraction, mental attraction, and our sexual chemistry is great. So then, I asked her to be my wife.

As far as men being more promiscuous than women; not from what I have seen in some areas the past couple of years. They are on par, or sometimes even more promiscuous then men.

 

[ABMorales787]

I've explained it a coupe times before. Sex is not an emotional thing for a male, so me having sex with other women is not a big deal at all. I don't do the things I do with my girlfriend with a girl that I just end up sleeping with. Sp that mean that they get fucked through the hole in my boxers, with a condom on, on top of the covers, and rarely ever get a call for any reason other than wanting to make sure we can still have sex

You're a piece of shit. The very feces that represents what's wrong with today's generation. Incapable of understanding the basic meaning of a word (that being "commitment") and twisting your own words in an attempt to sound justified and as if you were actually right in your claim that "sex isn't an emotional thing for a male". You're saying "attraction" isn't some sort emotional impulse? Or is it that our dicks just decide to run on autopilot and pull us out to bang whatever chick we see as if we were fucking farm animals?

Is that what we are to you? ******.

 

[PsychoBlack]

You're a piece of shit. The very feces that represents what's wrong with today's generation. Incapable of understanding the basic meaning of a word (that being "commitment") and twisting your own words in an attempt to sound justified and as if you were actually right in your claim that "sex isn't an emotional thing for a male". You're saying "attraction" isn't some sort emotional impulse? Or is it that our dicks just decide to run on autopilot and pull us out to bang whatever chick we see as if we were fucking farm animals?.

First of all, you're apart of today's generation. Now to basically sum this up since you seem to be butt hurt as usual, sex is not an emotional thing for me it's just sex. Attraction is not emotional at all it's physical, that's why it is called physical attraction

 

[Pay Per Ghost]

I care about hers so I don't tell her what she doesn't need to know.

You all seem to forget that my whole reason for doing this is because I like to have sex, however, I don't feel that a relationship should be based off of that. Therefore I have meaningless sex with other girls and do all of the boyfriend girlfriend shit with the girl that I truly care for



Because I actually like her, which is somewhat of a rarity for me.



When it all comes down to it I'll deny deny deny until I can't deny any more. And when she declares War then I'll just have to let her know what's up and whatever she got in store for me is just what I'm going to get

You're gonna end up marrying this girl.


Also re-read all that, you see nothing wrong?

 

[PsychoBlack]

You're gonna end up marrying this girl.

Lol, lets not talk about marriage, with anyone

Also re-read all that, you see nothing wrong?

I see how some could say that I'm being inconsiderate of her, at the same time I feel that I'm protecting her feelings the best way that I can. I don't see how I;m a horrible person and all of this shit that I'm being touted as

 

[Skairipa Matrix]

Lol, lets not talk about marriage, with anyone


I see how some could say that I'm being inconsiderate of her, at the same time I feel that I'm protecting her feelings the best way that I can. I don't see how I;m a horrible person and all of this shit that I'm being touted as

At the end of the day your still cheating on her. If you wanna bang random ****s then break things off with this chick.

Speaking as someone who has been cheated on, It sucks. Even if things weren't wicked serious it sucks. Hense why I never have and never will cheat on a girl.