There is a fairly large difference between beating the bejeezus out of your child and giving them a swat on the bottom when they've done something really bad.
All my life, I have been disciplined through both groundings and the occasional slap on the wrist. Yes, my parents spanked me. They spanked me if I did something really, really bad.
I have an excellent relationship with both my parents. I love them very much, and they love me. I do not become a quivering jelly around them, nor do I fear them in the ways people in this thread are saying children will fear parents. I don't fight, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I've never been to a party, I am for all intents and purposes a good kid.
Anyone who thinks my parents are bad parents because they spanked me from time to time are wrong, pure and simple. I have seen many types of families whose discipline methods range from ridiculous to none at all, and I can say that my family is one of the healthiest families I know.
However, as Big Sexy said earlier in the thread, different children respond to different forms of discipline. Perhaps grounding with the occasional spank was the right thing for me. Perhaps another child will only respond to physical punishment while another will find grounding or stern talkings-to the worst punishments in the world.
All I know if my personal experience. And in my personal experience, a spank here and there works and isn't going to emotionally scar your child forever and always. That's just stupid.
All my life, I have been disciplined through both groundings and the occasional slap on the wrist. Yes, my parents spanked me. They spanked me if I did something really, really bad.
I have an excellent relationship with both my parents. I love them very much, and they love me. I do not become a quivering jelly around them, nor do I fear them in the ways people in this thread are saying children will fear parents. I don't fight, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I've never been to a party, I am for all intents and purposes a good kid.
Anyone who thinks my parents are bad parents because they spanked me from time to time are wrong, pure and simple. I have seen many types of families whose discipline methods range from ridiculous to none at all, and I can say that my family is one of the healthiest families I know.
However, as Big Sexy said earlier in the thread, different children respond to different forms of discipline. Perhaps grounding with the occasional spank was the right thing for me. Perhaps another child will only respond to physical punishment while another will find grounding or stern talkings-to the worst punishments in the world.
All I know if my personal experience. And in my personal experience, a spank here and there works and isn't going to emotionally scar your child forever and always. That's just stupid.