In your opinion, is chivalry dead or is it still kicking well enough? If it is dead or on its way, who made it so?
Let me start off by saying that I am not sexist, I'm just curious on other people's opinions. Personally, I think it is either on life support, or has slowly deteriorated. There are guys out there that open doors, stand up for women when they enter or leave a room(I think), push in chairs and what not. I do my best to be one. So it isn't completely dead.
As for who made this an issue. I have to say that feminists started it, and men just got tired of it and stopped. I remind you, I am not sexist. In my honest opinion, I do think that feminism is what caused it. Not many people really think about it. On multiple occasions I have actually seen guys open a door for a woman, and her turn around and say "My hands aren't broken. I can open it myself." Or if a guy is going to be polite and push in her chair for her, the woman just scoots up herself in a hurry and the guy has a "what the fuck" look on his face. I know not too many guys want to be scolded for being nice, so they stop doing it if it continues.
So what do you guys think? Am I right or am I dead wrong? I also won't be surprised if I get a few replies calling me a dumbass or sexist, just for asking and giving my opinion on the subject.
Edit: If FTS or any other mod feels it should be in the Cigar Lounge, please move it.
Let me start off by saying that I am not sexist, I'm just curious on other people's opinions. Personally, I think it is either on life support, or has slowly deteriorated. There are guys out there that open doors, stand up for women when they enter or leave a room(I think), push in chairs and what not. I do my best to be one. So it isn't completely dead.
As for who made this an issue. I have to say that feminists started it, and men just got tired of it and stopped. I remind you, I am not sexist. In my honest opinion, I do think that feminism is what caused it. Not many people really think about it. On multiple occasions I have actually seen guys open a door for a woman, and her turn around and say "My hands aren't broken. I can open it myself." Or if a guy is going to be polite and push in her chair for her, the woman just scoots up herself in a hurry and the guy has a "what the fuck" look on his face. I know not too many guys want to be scolded for being nice, so they stop doing it if it continues.
So what do you guys think? Am I right or am I dead wrong? I also won't be surprised if I get a few replies calling me a dumbass or sexist, just for asking and giving my opinion on the subject.
Edit: If FTS or any other mod feels it should be in the Cigar Lounge, please move it.