Throughout the world things will happen that aren't expected, ranging from death of a close family member to spilling a hot beverage on your lap. In short shit happens in life, things don't always go our way and that is to be expected. A lot of times this stuff can be avoided on our part but a lot of times instead of taking personal responsibility people often point the fingers because they don't have to. Now before I go any further I understand sometimes a person really isn't at fault and there is nothing a person can do about it. For example if a person parks in a parking lot and comes back to find a drunk driver plowed into their car they have every right to point the finger, they couldn't have expected that to happen not could they have stopped it from happening. Situations like this however are not what this threads about. I'm talking about the person who spills hot coffee on their lap and sue's a company because its too hot, or the person who cheats on their wife and thinks its alright because the wife has been emotionally distant for whatever reason. Too many times society points the finger without looking in the mirror first. Throughout my life I've read and seen this happen all the time and it seems to be getting worse as time goes on whether its a family member blaming all their hardships on family and friends or a person refusing fault in a car accident when they ran a red light, not paying attention. There are a million other examples but these are 2 prominent ones that have happened in my life recently. I feel its easier to point the finger than to look in the mirror but I also feel looking in the mirror first and looking at what you did wrong first make things a lot better in the long run and personally I feel if more people did this the world would be a much better place. So what do you think.Are there any incident's in your life where this situation happened? Does society in general point the finger first? Would things be much better if we stopped doing it? What causes people to point the finger first?