For many, childhood is the best time of their lives. Those of us who've grown up with loving families, good siblings, and nice provisions caan think back to that day and time when we didn't have the cares of today. Worrying about paychecks, paying back college loans and deciding on futures is a thing of the far away future. But there are some who grew up without those things. Unsupportive/abusive families, physical or mental illness, and financial problems amongst others permeate so many homes in the United States and all over the World today. Id like to think that all of us great memory that sticks out to us, regardless of the day-to-day circumstances surrounding our childhood years.
I grew up in a loving family with two parents, which Im thankful for to this day. Most of my friends had parents who were divorced, and I saw the toll it took on them. My family didn't have much, as my dad was a teacher and really didnt have a choice but to have my mother stay home with my sister and myself, as I had a twin sister. My dad had to take a tutoring job aafter work and eventually a telemarketing job as a third just to provide for us. It was tough essentially only seeing my dad on weekends, even if we understood the circumstances why.
There was a Christmas when I was 12 where my parents sat us down and told us they couldn't afford much that year. They spent $100 between the two of us, and I sincerely believe that was all they could spend. I remember opening my presents that year and how thoughtfully they were picked out. Unlike before or after, none were household needs, all were things I wanted. What my parents lacked in funds they made up with creativity and listening to what we truly wanted. Even if some of the things we were given were used, I didnt care much at the time. My parents had truly listened to the things I had told them I wanted. That was(almost) as good as them having an abundance of resources to spend on us. When I told my dad that it was the "Best Christmas Ever", I truly meant it. In the 18 years I lived with my parents, none were as enjoyable or as meaningful. Not only was it the best Christmas I had with my parents, it's one of my favorite memories from childhood.
What is one of your favorite memories from childhood? Why?
I grew up in a loving family with two parents, which Im thankful for to this day. Most of my friends had parents who were divorced, and I saw the toll it took on them. My family didn't have much, as my dad was a teacher and really didnt have a choice but to have my mother stay home with my sister and myself, as I had a twin sister. My dad had to take a tutoring job aafter work and eventually a telemarketing job as a third just to provide for us. It was tough essentially only seeing my dad on weekends, even if we understood the circumstances why.
There was a Christmas when I was 12 where my parents sat us down and told us they couldn't afford much that year. They spent $100 between the two of us, and I sincerely believe that was all they could spend. I remember opening my presents that year and how thoughtfully they were picked out. Unlike before or after, none were household needs, all were things I wanted. What my parents lacked in funds they made up with creativity and listening to what we truly wanted. Even if some of the things we were given were used, I didnt care much at the time. My parents had truly listened to the things I had told them I wanted. That was(almost) as good as them having an abundance of resources to spend on us. When I told my dad that it was the "Best Christmas Ever", I truly meant it. In the 18 years I lived with my parents, none were as enjoyable or as meaningful. Not only was it the best Christmas I had with my parents, it's one of my favorite memories from childhood.
What is one of your favorite memories from childhood? Why?