It sounds like, more or less, the OP has basically stated that he/she just isn't into WWE ladder matches anymore and that the Attitude Era was great.
That's all well and good but as far as the Attitude Era goes, yes it was fun and produced some great stuff. However, it was not this golden age of greatness in which everything that took place was some grand epic. The AE was not that, not even close, not by a looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong shot.
As for WWE ladder matches, I've got no problem with them whatsoever. The ones I've seen over the course of the past year or so have been very entertaining in my opinion.
Raw & SmackDown! MITB matches - MITB ppv, 7-18-10 - Both of these matches were lots of fun and delivered all the spots that a lot of fans do enjoy seeing here. Personally, I thought the WWE sent an interesting message with both matches. Surprisingly, Kane won the SD! MITB match whereas The Miz won the Raw MITB match. Kane is a long time veteran that most had written off as having had his best days in the sun a long time ago, so I thought it was great to see a guy that's worked his ass off and been a very solid presence in the mid-card/upper mid-card scene for well over a decade to get his shot. As for The Miz, it was a sign of things to come. The Miz was pegged to be the next main event star in the company and he's someone that's gone on to show that he deserved to win and he earned the spot.
The Miz vs. Jerry The King Lawler - WWE Monday Night Raw, 11-29-10 - This was a TLC match for the WWE Championship that took place approximately 1 week after Miz cashed in his MITB contract and defeated Randy Orton for the title. This match may have lacked in high spots but it more than made up with that in storytelling. Jerry Lawler was never the most athletic wrestler but he could always tell a story and the crowd was eating it up that night. There were a few parts where it really looked as if Lawler was going to win the title. It gave some people a nice little scare and helped generate immense heat for Miz & Michael Cole.
John Morrison vs. Sheamus - WWE TLC ppv, 12-19-10 - This was a ladder match to determine the #1 contender for the WWE Championship. As with their other matches, this was a competitive, physical match between two guys that have great chemistry with each other. Morrison gave another standout performance and there were some pretty nice high spots coupled with good storytelling. JoMo gets the win, becomed #1 contender and faces Miz in what's not only JoMo's first WWE Championship match but is the first WWE match of 2011.
Kane vs. Edge vs. Rey Mysterio vs. Alberto Del Rio - WWE TLC - This match had the storytelling, it had the high spots and it had four wrestlers competing that have really good chemistry together. Everybody looked strong throughout the match and everyone ultimately looked good at the end of the night.
Christian vs. Alberto Del Rio - WWE Extreme Rules, 5-1-11 - This was one of the best matches of 2011 thus far and, if I'm not mistaken, is the only ladder match WWE has had this year even though that'll change with the MITB ppv. Again, two guys that work great together, competitive, told a great story and Christian winning the WHC was a fantastic moment. I was legitimately a little choked up as I've been a fan of Christian for a very long time. This match ultimately shot Christian into the main event picture and his 3 way feud that's gone on with Orton & Sheamus has not only been one of the best of the year but has helped cement Christian as someone that does belong in the main event.
I can understand if someone's tastes have changed regarding ladder matches. After all, we've seen a lot of them over the course of the past decade or so. The fact that the WWE has often injected more storytelling into their ladder matches over the past few years is a plus in my opinion. High spots are nice and all but there's only so many times and so many ways you can see a man fall off of a ladder and watch him go splat against the canvas. Just like the use of blood in some matches in the past, ladders are a tool to be used to further a match along. Of course, you can't have a ladder match without a ladder whereas you can have a great no DQ match without blood, but the ladder is still a prop. If the action isn't there, if the story isn't interesting, then the fans won't care. Oh sure, they'll all cheer whenever someone does a suicide dive off a 20 foot ladder, but that's not the mark of a great wrestler. Anybody will get big cheers and crowd reaction for that. There ultimately has to be more brought to the table than the high spots.