You are gravely misinformed on a number of topics you touched on in your post. First off, I have yet to read anyone on this board say they want Jeff Hardy to die. Considering the number of posts regarding the matter, I'd say you are overstating your case right off the bat. Jeff Hardy is a junkie, not "was a junkie". His addiction has constantly interrupted his career, along with angles and matches planned by two major pro wrestling companies. You may not understand this, but that tends to rub a lot of people the wrong way. If Hardy wasn't a famous wrestler, he would have been sent to prison long ago. Instead of taking the chance to turn around his life with the advantages his celebrity has afforded, he continues to make the same mistakes over and over again.
Secondly, you make a bogus claim saying that a "majority of wrestling icons" were junkies. You cited 4 examples, which hardly qualifies as a majority. Additionally, despite the issues with those you mentioned none has ever come close to the public disgraces as Jeff Hardy. I don't recall Hogan showing up at a pay per view he main evented too intoxicated to perform. I don't recall Flair being suspended numerous times in his career because he couldn't control his addiction. Again, you are overstating your case and thus blowing any credibility you had with these type of statements.
Lastly, you are out of line with referencing Benoit in relation to Hardy's situation. Where has there been people defending what Benoit did? It is widely believed, and accepted, that Benoit was a gutless coward who took two innocent lives when he ended his own. Benoit has been condemned in wrestling, as well as every other mainstream coverage concerning him. You comparing the two is ridiculous.
People are disgusted that dispute all of his flaws and refusal to change his selfish behavior, Hardy remains employed and seemingly in line for yet another "second chance" in wrestling. I am personally further annoyed that some look past of all these warning signs and say things like "Jeff Hardy should be brought back as a face" or "Hardy deserves another chance because he's an icon." The dislike of Hardy has nothing to do with members of the IWC who "just follow" what others say. It is intelligent people looking at this selfish, arrogant junkie and not condoning his childish, repulsive behavior.