Firstly... I am disgusted by the amount of hate that gets vigorously spewed at Tommy for time-to-time on this board.
And to call him something like a "****e" is uncalled for. Yes Tommy was emotional when Vince gave ECW a "One Night Stand". But then Vince crushed him by turning the name of the company he sweat, bled, and broke himself for into a lame third-rate bastardized child of his brand extension to make a few extra bucks. What Vince did was tarnish the ECW legacy by creating something that in zero ways reflected what ECW was, yet giving it there name. Do you realize that there are teenagers who's only familiarity with ECW is WWECW??? If I were Tommy that fact would make me want to commit suicide. So yes he was also emotional when Dixie(even without benefit of being able to use the ECW initials) went all-in to give ECW the closest thing to a proper send-off that it could get in 2010. ECW was Tommy's life... forgive the man for caring still. I imagine getting to wrestle at Hardcore Justice for Tommy meant about as much to him as it would mean to me to see my late father one last time (Would that make me a "****e" for being emotional?). And it is unfair of anyone to not understand that and criticize him for it.
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Dixie didn't do shit to give ECW a proper send off. Vince did that in 2005. The first One Night Stand was amazing, and probably better than 90% of the original ECW pay per views that I ordered. Tommy got to main event with one of his best friends against his biggest rivals. The next year Tommy was in the semi main event with his idol Terry Funk against two of the biggest stars in WWE history. THE ECW ORIGINALS FUCKED UP WWECW. Vince gives RVD the push of a lifetime and he says thanks by getting arrested for drugs a week after become world champ and being made the face of a relaunched brand. Not to mention guys like Axel Rotten got offered contracts and were fired before the brand ever relaunched for getting fucked up and no showing events. Was Vince supposed to bank his investment of guys like a drunk middle aged Sandman, a drug addled Sabu, or Balls Mahoney. Sure, WWECW wasn't perfect, but it did give us stars like CM Punk, Tyson Kidd, Ezikel Jackson, and Jack Swagger. Not to mention giving a boost to people like Matt Hardy and Christian.
There's another flaw in your "Dixie gave them a proper send off" theory. Tommy won the damn ECW world title on PPV and held it for 6 weeks before losing it on another PPV. That isn't exactly going out with a wimper. HardCore Justice was a terrible PPV. It wasn't a fraction of what ECW used to be. It was awful. THEY JUST DRESSED A FAT GUY UP AND TOLD PEOPLE HE WAS THE BLUE MEANIE. It was also voted the worst PPV of 2010 by the Wrestling Observer. PWI wrote an article on it calling it "sad", and saying "hopefully this is the last time some promoter tries to make a quick buck by reliving the last century with guys who really can't preform anymore". Half of the originals didn't even show up, including Paul Heyman. They guy that they were trying to bring into the company with the PPV said he thought it was a bad idea and didn't give it his blessing. Vince did a hell of a lot more of ECW than Dixie Carter ever did, including helping them out finacially before they shut down.
If ROH offered to put Dreamer, Raven, Sabu, Sandman, and Rhyno on a PPV and call it a hardcore show, Dreamer would fall to his knees crying his eyes out screaming that Cary Silken means everything to ECW. Dreamer has never done on thing to reinvent his character or be fresh. All he does is offer God like praise to who ever will let him blade himself in one more match while fans chant ECW.
Dreamer has never moved on from the mid 90's. Jericho, Beniot, Guerrero, Mysterio, The Dudleys, Mick Foley and many other have been able to make a name for themselves in every company they worked for. Dreamer has never been anything more than "that guy who used to be in ECW".
I don't know your family, but your dramatic quote about "wrestling at HardCore Justice would be like me being able to see my late father again" is obscene. How the hell do you equate getting cut up with barded wire for the 1000 time in your 5th farewell show to seeing a dead family member. I sure loved high school football, but I sure as hell wouldn't equate playing one more game to seeing my dead grandfather.
On a final note, it is hard to take any of your talk about emotion and loss and thanks seriously when you look at your screen name. YOU CALL YOURSELF PAPA PILLMAN, AND PAPA PILLMAN MURDERED HIS WIFE AND YOUNG SON.