Charmaine had A LOT of issues, to say the very least. I really don't mean to bury her like this, because she doesn't deserve that much, regardless of anything. However, when we first started dating, she'd tell me about all these guys that physically abused her.. & she went on to tell me she believed she deserved it, because she felt she was a bitch to them.
I don't care how much of a bitch a Woman can be, it doesn't warrant physical abuse. And she would literally argue with me over being "too nice" to her. I remember one time in general, I pulled my car over in the middle of the interstate & told her if she wanted a jackass, that she needed to get out of my car, because it wasn't me. At that point, she said she liked me talking to her like that. Again, she had a lot of mental unbalance.
So fast forward to me (jokingly) being an ass to her. she hung on every word I said, whenever I bad mouthed her, because she liked the nature of it, apparently. I remember the two biggest things I gave her crap for.. is her weight & her dark hair. (because of arm hair & whatknot)
I remember saying that she had gotten really hairy, & she grabbed her arms & was like "You're being so mean to me." & I replied by saying "last time I knew you, it was what you enjoyed the most." Her reply to that was "I never said I didn't enjoy it now."
The truth is, even with joking I just couldn't be a complete ass forever. I told her after the first week of refinding her, that I was only joking, & she said somehow she knew because she just couldn't picture me changing & being "bad." We formed a friendship that lasted up until she decided for whatever reason it was okay for her to walk directly into my house, without knocking, & come directly INTO my bed room when I just happened to be sleeping.. with the lack of clothing. Needless to say, since I wasn't single.. it wasn't taken lightly in the eyes of the other woman.
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