My issue here is simple: the people originally voted against it. The idea of a democracy is to let the voices of the people be heard. They were heard here but the ruling was overturned anyway. The content of the bill doesn't matter. It's that the people voted one way but it's just been decided that that's not what we're going to do so the minority gets their choice. That's never made sense to me at all and doesn't here.
To me, this is what makes this case so challenging. Our country was founded upon democracy and the overturning of a public vote goes against the very essence of that democracy.
Then again, George W. Bush was elected President in 2000, despite losing the popular vote. So I guess we can't say our democracy has ever been truly held sacred.
Well, that shouldnt mean SHIT in a cases of human rights, man.
If we put it to a vote in fucking Alabama that we should bring back Slavery, and it passed, it would be ok to do that? If we voted on child molestation to be legal in Mighigan and it passed, that would be ok? Like fuck it would.
Slavery no, but child molestation, from a legal standpoint, yes.
Obviously that would never pass, but in a hypothetical world, if a state decided a 45 year old man could have sex with a "consenting" 9 year old girl, the state should have that right. It wouldn't mean it would be morally right, but it would legally. The difference in the gay marriage case is that we're getting into legal rights, not just cases of morality.
I always thought it was wrong to deny anyone they're basic human rights,including the right to be married.In a church.
Marriage in a church is not a human right, it's a privilege granted by the church. Homosexual people have ZERO right to be married by a church, and even they would admit that when you get right down to it.
However, the problems come in when you start granting those marriages from a church certain legal benefits you do not grant homosexuals who engage in civil unions. That's when it becomes an issue of inequality.
Who gives a shit if the people voted for it?
Well, me, for example. What your sentence suggests takes our country down a very dangerous road. If we no longer care what the people vote for, then we might as well throw our Constitution out the window, because it would no longer be necessary.
In my opinion, you're dealing with two VERY morally important ideals here. You're dealing with equality for all individuals, but you're also dealing with the very existence and foundation of our country, and this time, they are in conflict with each other.
Appeal it to the Supreme Court. The ruling will stand.
Not necessarily, and that's the part that scares me the most. Human rights is a big part of our Constitution, but so is the very idea of our democracy. And with the obviously political Supreme Court we have, which leans to the right (usually by a vote of 5-4), I honestly have no idea how they would rule on this matter. I would HOPE they would strike it down as unconstitutional, but in doing so, would basically legalize homosexual marriage throughout the country, thereby potentially overstepping their own bounds of authority.
I don't think this is as clear as you seem to.
This shouldn't have gone to a vote in the first place.
I agree completely. But it did, and now the matter becomes quite murky.
This is another good argument for the separation of church and state. I agree with NorCal too, since coming out against child molestation, slavery and the stoning of women doesn't (or shouldn't) have any basis in a person's religious beliefs.
On the other hand, the issue of same-sex marriage does often concern what people claim is being told to them by God.
Personally, I don't want to be governed by someone else's religious beliefs. Placing a proposition like this before the general public is a dangerous step.
Who said this was a religious law? I know atheists who are against gay marriage. That fact alone prohibits this from being seen as a religious law.
Uh, when did marriage become a fundamental human right? Also, comparing a ban against same-sex marriage to slavery and child molestation is laughable, if not straight-up ignorant.
Not really, in both cases, it's an example of equality being protected by our country.
YES, it is unfair to deny same-sex couples the various tax benefits that are given to married, heterosexual couples. However, getting married in a place of your choosing is a privilege, not a right. I'm not against gay civil unions, or even gay marriage per se, but I am against a government mandate requiring churches to marry same-sex couples.
I agree with just about everything you said there. However, you left out one VERY important point.
"I'm FOR removing all governmental privileges to married couples, and instead, bestowing upon all government recognized unions the same rights and benefits for every couple joined under the law".
Basically, if we're only going to recognize civil unions under the law for homosexuals, we should only recognize civil unions under the law for heterosexuals, and grant each party the same rights as the other. This way government doesn't dictate religion, and religion doesn't dictate government, a true separation of church and state.
Given the indirect government funding churches get through tax-exemption status, what's to say that this status can't be yanked the first time that they decide to deny a same-sex couple services based on their religious beliefs (a freedom clearly protected under the First Amendment)?
So what?
If the government yanks tax-exemption status from a church that doesn't follow the law, what's the problem? Would that not then be a true separation of church and state?
You can't have it both ways. You can't say government shouldn't be involved in the affairs of a church, and then complain when the government doesn't fund that church which breaks its laws. You have to decide either you want a working relationship between law and religion, or not.
However, until same-sex marriage proponents have a clear idea on how they plan to create new rights instead of taking away existing ones, we're going to have to agree to disagree on how this would all play out.
I think we all know what should be done and have a very clear idea on how it should be done. The problem comes back to democracy: if politicians write laws to grant equality of civil unions and for government to not recognize religious marriage, then they get voted out of their political position.
So, again, we're back to democracy vs. equality.