Fair or not Fair

[Christian Battlez]

One of my friends has decided she doesn't wanna be my friend anymore after finding out im bipolar. We work together and have been friends for almost two months now. I used to really like her but have since tried to be just a friend. Since thats what she requested. But I feel like she treats me differently because i started out with feelings for her. Feelings I couldn't control because of my condition my mood changes constantly and i snap at the drop of a dime im not on medication and she is seemingly using it against me saying she can't deal with it bc she had a bipolar mother and can't deal with another one. Is it fair that im losing a close friend over something i cant control.

 

[HBK-aholic]

She's not a good friend, you're better without her.

 

[CH David]

I'll back what Becca said. If she is going to do that, she isn't worth being a friend. You seem like a good kid CB. (I don't know your age lol) She will either realize that she wants to be friends, or you go on and not worry about her anymore. I'll try and think of more sound advice in the morning. I'm tired as hell Christian, but I'll come back and do my best to think of better advice.

 

[Christian Battlez]

She's not a good friend, you're better without her.

She says that I cant expect her to be friends with someone who gets emotional about everything. But i cant help it and thats not fair. I feel like cuz her mom was the same way im getting punished.

I'll back what Becca said. If she is going to do that, she isn't worth being a friend. You seem like a good kid CB. (I don't know your age lol) She will either realize that she wants to be friends, or you go on and not worry about her anymore. I'll try and think of more sound advice in the morning. I'm tired as hell Christian, but I'll come back and do my best to think of better advice.

im 19 and dont worry about making it a priority.

 

[Mr. TM]

Wow your names and avatars are alike.

 

[Christian Battlez]

Wow your names and avatars are alike.

not in the mood right now TM

 

[Blade]

She's just not worth it, simple as. Friends are supposed to support each other, no matter what. And if she's not going to, then she's not a good friend.

 

[jmt225]

Just let this be a lesson to you not to let many people in 'real life' into your personal business. 2 months might seem like a long time, but it's really not.

Also, just curious CB and I hope you don't mind me asking, but are you on any type of medication? Being Bi-Polar should not go untreated and there is plenty of medicine out there that can really help you out with those mood swings.

 

[CH David]

Wow your names and avatars are alike.

We both like Punk TM. Although I had the avatar first. lol. But onto the topic at hand.

She says that I cant expect her to be friends with someone who gets emotional about everything. But i cant help it and thats not fair. I feel like cuz her mom was the same way im getting punished.

im 19 and dont worry about making it a priority.

I'm 19 as well Christian. Obviously it says it on here. I feel I should try to think of something better, since I was about as tired as possible without actually sleeping at that moment.

You are right that it isn't fair. I already said this girl is a bitch for thinking that. I don't know anyone personally who is Bi-Polar, but I am going out on a limb and saying that not everyone is the same. (Sorry if I am mistaken) Also like I already said, you seem like a good kid Christian. I know it seems hard because you guys work together and she doesn't want to be friends, but if she is going to be like that, she isn't worth your time. The best advice I could give is just ignore her then, and if she really wants to be friends, she will come around. If not, then (and not literally) fuck her. There are far better people you could spend your time and hang out with.

 

[X]

Wow. What a cunt.

As Becca said, you're better off not having someone like that as a friend.

 

[gd]

Kill her.