All Your Eggs in One Basket?

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A Texas woman wasn't planning on two conceptions for the record books.

But that's what she got — along with two beautiful boys — when she gave birth to twins of different fathers nearly a year ago.

"Both of them have similar appetites. They like to play with their older brothers. They like to play with each other," Mia Washington told the TODAY show Thursday.

Talk about baby-papa drama.

Their two dads
How did it happen? Every month a woman's ovary releases one egg that can be fertilized by one sperm. But in this case, a pair of eggs emerged.

Sperm, meanwhile, can remain alive and well and viable for up to five days in the reproductive tract. Thus a woman can have sex with different men within those five days and the sperm “just kind of hang out there waiting for the egg to be released,” Dr. Hilda Hutcherson, Clinical Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Columbia University, told Meredith Vieira on TODAY.

Washington, who just turned 20, admitted to her partner that she had sex with another man within that five-day window — hence, the double conception.

The mystery began to be solved when her partner, 44-year-old James Harrison, became concerned that Justin and Jordan, born only 7 minutes apart, looked so different. A paternity test followed.

When he discovered that Justin wasn’t his son, Harrison said, "I was hurt, torn apart — didn't know what the next move was gonna be," Harrison said in a taped NBC News segment.

Nonetheless, he's loved both boys the same since then. "I raised him [Justin] from a baby all the way to now. He knows me as his father, and I know him as my son," Harrison explained.

Brotherly love
The boys, meanwhile, know each other as brothers. "They're growing in the same environment," Washington said, "and they're getting to know each other and play with each other."

Indeed, the bonding that will grow between the fraternal half-brothers will be the same, said Dr. Hutcherson, who writes monthly sexual health columns in Essence and Glamour magazines and is an online advisor for Parents Magazine and Glamour.

"The babies won't know the difference," she said.

Such occurrences are rare — as rare one in a million, say some. Yet Hutcherson said some studies have shown that 1 to 2 percent of all fraternal twins have different dads. It just doesn't get noticed sometimes.

The technical term is twins by different fathers is "heteropaternal superfecundation." The first case was reported by John Archer — the first doctor to receive a medical degree in the United States — in 1810.

According to Archer, a white woman who had sex with a black man and a white man within a short time later gave birth to twins: one white, the other of mixed race.

Washington and Harrison, who are both African-American, say they intend to marry someday. They said they also plan on telling the kids the entire story when they're old enough to grasp it.

Besides its amazing twist, the story also has a mystery: The other father's identity isn't being released. And it has a surprise: Washington, who has a 4-year-old son from a different father, says the clan will grow even larger in August.

"They're gonna have a baby sister," she said.

First and foremost I couldn't help but laugh the minute I read this story. This is a situation in which it just goes to show how massively wrong it is to cheat on your spouse, especially if you're a Female since it can backfire in this type of major manner.

Second, I think that while this is a rare situation - I'm shocked that the Husband of one half of the twins is even sticking this out. The Woman didn't come clean about cheating, until AFTER her children were born and noticeable differences were seen - followed by a blood test proving the unfortunate news to the assumed Father of both. It's one thing to cheat, it's a whole other to do so then try to cover it up while being pregnant - in the hopes and assumption you could pass the child(ren) off as the wrongful Man's kid(s).

What is everyone's thoughts on this subject? If this was you in this situation, Male's or Female's alike - how would you have handled this issue? What do you think of this subject as a whole? Please be sure to add as much detail and opinion as possible.

As the catchy title goes - I guess this Lady literally couldn't keep all her "eggs" in the same "Basket". Again, I can't help but laugh at this unfortunate yet ridiculous story.

Oh, and apparently she's pregnant again. :rolleyes: If I were the Father that's there now, I think I'd be making damn sure this "Daughter" on the way was mine - otherwise, I'd be out the door in a heartbeat.
 
I definately wouldn't have stayed with her if I was her partner. Cheating is bad enough, but then she had the cheek not to say anything until it was clear she couldn't pass the children off as full brothers. All this does is show how horrible cheating or sleeping around can be. This is hardly an idea situation in any case, and I don't have any idea how her partner can raise them knowing she cheated on him.
 
What is everyone's thoughts on this subject?

Well actually when I first read the title of the article, I thought it was some fluke story, fake. Impossible is what more or less came to my mind. UNTIL I read the article.

If this was you in this situation, Male's or Female's alike - how would you have handled this issue?

Well if I was the mother of the children, I would have at least told the guy that I cheated on, that I cheated on him first and foremost. I wouldn't obviously have a clue that I could get pregnant at the same time by the other guy. I would be dumbfounded once I gave birth to find out that it was possible for me to have twins with two different guys. I would be in shock. I would feel embarrassed too.

What do you think of this subject as a whole?

To be honest, it's a shocking matter. I think it's wrong that the woman cheated in the beginning. She should have mentioned to the other guy that she cheated on him. I think the guy should have left her once he found out she cheated on him. If I was in his shoes, that's what I would do. Cheating is bad.
 
I know that if I was that guy & I found out that my girl cheated on me then I would be out the door & never coming back.

This situation proves exactly why it is wrong to cheat on your spouse period. I do think this situation is kinda humerous cause the bitch can't keep her legs close & as a result of this, she has 2 babies at the same time with 2 different daddy's. I think that if you cheat on your spouse then you should come clean right then & there cause if that doesn't happen then you could possibly end up in problems like that.

To sum all of that up. That woman is as dumb as a bag of rocks for getting herself into this situation.
 
Lulz.

First of all, the fact that the woman cheated would have torn me apart. I honestly don't know if I would have left. I've never been in that situation, thank God. I'm only 19. But I do know I would have raised the second child as my own. I'm not making him grow up feeling inadequately cared for because his mother was a floozy.

Secondly, I just have to comment on her getting pregnant again. Really? I mean, my brother was conceived about 6 months or so after I was born, but that was in the 1990s, at a time when everyone could be cared for efficiently. No one was going to starve because my mother and father had another child. But in today's economy? Unless that man has a damn good job, he should have started reading a book instead of fucking his girlfriend. They're not even fucking married. What's their hurry to make a family when they aren't even hitched?
 
Because they aren't married they will never starve, the govt take care o them. SHe is a welfare baby makin MACHINE and a ****.
 
As soon as I found out she had cheated on me, I would have said "goodbye see you in court". Anyone who breaks my trust, Doesn't get let back into it. Seriously, If she was getting it from her partner why did she cheat? It couldn't have been a sexual thing surely to god. I would be wanting full custody as well, She'll still have a kid at home.
 
Most of all, I feel bad for the kids in this situation, just like any other time someone cheats. I respect the man for staying with her, I wouldn't have done it but that takes a lot of balls. Hopefully the kids can be raised in a somewhat normal enviornment. But, when they actually do tell the one kid that his father is someone else, it sure will be an akward situation.
 

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